2006-08-29 12:12:36 · 19 answers · asked by advicemom 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
oh good heavens I am not having an affair! I have always been curious about this lol
2006-08-29 12:44:19 · update #1
You don't. It's a gamble. But a married person should have an affair with another married person. A single person has nothing to lose if they talk.
2006-08-29 12:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by sheeny 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't really know. They may become infatuated with you and try to sabotage your marriage. They may become pregnant and come after you for support or just be the type that will kiss and tell. It is a very risky thing to become involved in affairs if you value your marriage or reputation.
2006-08-29 19:19:34 · answer #2 · answered by Kenneth H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is easy. If you are a mom, he is bragging about it. If you are married, he is bragging about it. This is how men work. They get extra points for sleeping with a married woman and even more extra points if she has kids. I've talked to a few guys about it once and they all said the same thing. Even if he doesn't tell, you know and God knows and eventually, the truth will reveal itself. Why get in the situation to begin with? It is adultury.
2006-08-29 19:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by Mom of 3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know the person you are having the affair with won't tell?
Ahahaha, right
You don't, they always tell, if not someone else will and it's usually someone close you.
2006-08-29 19:17:43 · answer #4 · answered by zurioluchi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your not happy get out of the marraige first .......would be the smart thing to do.Why make yourself look bad?Cause if you did get caught you would look like the lil slut and if you have children they could find out too....to answer your question now......they might tell someone wether its your hubby of a friend that knows a friend that knows a friend and excalade all over town......
2006-08-29 19:22:05 · answer #5 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's only one risk. Another is someone will see you and/or figure it out, another is that one of you will give the other a disease. Don't forget pregnancy, unless that's biologically out of the question.
2006-08-29 19:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats A chance you have to take I wont tell Lol
2006-08-29 19:16:36 · answer #7 · answered by wise.cracker 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't know. That's part of the risk you're taking. You are trusting someone who's breaking someone else's trust.
2006-08-29 19:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by kukkeeme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They'll tell. Someone. Only one person can keep a secret.
2006-08-29 19:17:17 · answer #9 · answered by coffeepleasenosugar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the bottom line sooner or later the truth always comes out
2006-08-29 19:16:27 · answer #10 · answered by thesunnshynne 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋