im ready to loose my virginity but im scared and i need to know wat it feels like.?

Answer 1

Wait until you are married !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

Are you ready beacuse you are in a loving relationship, or are you ready because you don't want to be a virgin anymore. If its the latter, then just wait awhile longer, untill you find someone whom you love and care deeply for. You'll remember it for the rest of you life as it being an passionate and loving experience, instead of doing something rushed, just to get it over with. If it's the former, however...congrats on finding a wonderful man!
Ok...first off, I would recomend you consider something before you go on ahead and take that next step in your relationship. Or you honestly commited to each other - as in, are there any doubts about where you stand it the other persons life? I've seen so many of my friends say they were in love and knew that their boyfriend loved them back, and so they went ahead and had sex. Sadly, most of the time their BF's didn't really love them, and got bored a couple weeks/months later, leaving them alone...and they remember the day the lost their virginity as the begining of the end of their relationship. I hope it doesn't turn out that way for you.
Secondly, be honest with each other about what you expect. I'm going to tell you the truth...it's going to be over quickly, and it might hurt - its a deep, shooting pain in your lower abdoment, kinda like when you get really bad cramps. It gets better after a couple seconds though, and then it feels, well...amazing. At the point though, it's most likely over for they guy, and you won't get to have a fully pleasurable experience untill the next time. But thats ok, because if you really love each other, then you won't mind...he'll probably be really tired afterwards...and you might have some bleeding and a little trouble walking. Thats all normal.
Emotionally, it depends on how close you are, and if you were really ready at the time. Some girls feel empty and guilty afterwards, not only because it wasn't what they expected, but because they wished they wanted a little longer for another man. But if you two are looking at marriage (I feel that you should only take this step if you are engaged with the intent to marry, or are already married. if not, I'd hope you have been dating for a long time...at least a year), and are VERY serious about your relationship, then you just feel...complete. It makes you whole, and happy to be that close and have shared that bond with him.
Be honest if he asks you how it was. Don't be afraid to voice any insecuritys or things that bothered you. Hopefully, he'll love on you allot beforehand...that'll make it better for you, and it'll show that he deeply cares.
Best of wishes, and remember...please think if you are really ready. The fact that you say you are scared might be a warning sign for you to wait. But you might be meaning 'nervous', instead, at which point thats normal - to an extent. If you find its overwhelming you, don't do anything. When its right, you will know it...you wont have any worrys, and you know that you will be find pleasing him and vice versa, because your relationship has faith and trust it in. If you feel that you are ready, then PLEASE use protection. I'm sure you already know that, but it needs to be said nevertheless.
Best wishes, and good luck!

Answer 3

That is a really big step. Waiting until you are married is a really good idea though not at all popular. You should also invest time and energy into learning about yourself and your intended. It is work, AND worth it.
Past that, think about birth control as well as STD's. In an ideal situation, monogamy in a marriage relationship, the STD's are of little regard unless your spouse introduces them. Birth control is tricky and very personal. Many recommend spermicide. I don't unless sex is infrequent. Spermicide is an irritant. In sufficient quantities or too frequent use, it will tend to break down the vaginal lining making it irritated and more susceptible to STD's if they are an issue. Lubricated condoms are a good idea. Lubrication is essential to lower the risk of tearing. They do not tear easily, but it does happen. Some recommend lubricant inside the condom WITH caution. Too much lubricant inside and the condom might slip off. If there is enough foreplay with the condom on, the man's preliminary secretions will add enough lubricant.
No matter what, you must be emotionally AND physically comfortable or you will hurt worse than necessary. That goes for both of you. You MUST communicate at all times. If something is uncomfortable you have to tell your mate. Your partner CANNOT read your mind. I use caps for emphasis only. Again, I recommend waiting until marriage with pre-marital counseling. It would not hurt to really study on bedroom etiquette as well.

Answer 4

If you are scared,you arent ready.You cannot be scared the first time,because then it will hurt you because you tense up.You need to stay calm and relax.Wait,until your familiar with your body before you let someone else "explore" it.Please,wait until your with someone for a long time.Once in a committed relationship it tends to go smoother and you remain more calm because you are with someone you love and trust.Someone,who will not push you to do things you do not want to do.If you loose it at a young age,most regret it and wish they would have waited.Please,also dont do this just because of peer pressure or because you feel you have to to fit in.That isnt what it is all about,it is about you being with someone you love and care about someone who loves and cares about you and will take it slow and easy and not force you to do it.Remember,it doesnt make you a loser or any less of a person if you wait,it makes you smarter.In a sense that you wait until you are ready,you will be more prepared.Also,remember to use the proper protection.If you do not you could end up with an unwanted pregnancy or an std.No birth control,or protection is 100% effective.The only 100% effective method to prevent pregnancy and std's is to not have sex at all.Please,think about it.Good luck.

Answer 5

First of all, ask yourself if you are REALLY ready, or if you just think you are ready because "everyone else is doing it." If you really truly are ready, then you need to be prepared mentally. Your partner needs to know that this is your first time so that he can be extra gentle with you - it DOES hurt - and for some people (like me!) it hurts a lot! Make sure you use a lubricant & have him wear a condom (aside from the STD protection, it goes in much easier). You also may want to be on top so that you can control the speed and penetration. Also, be prepared for a little blood afterwards (you will most likely bleed from your hymen tearing).

Lastly, make sure that you are doing this FOR YOU and not FOR HIM! Make sure this is with someone you truly love because once your viriginity is gone, you can't get it back! I waited until my wedding night to have sex with my husband and I am SO glad that I did because what we shared together, we can say that we never shared with anyone else! Good luck!

Answer 6

I'm afriad everyone on here is right. it is soo much betta to wait. Dont rush yourself into that stage of your life cuz most likely you arent ready and if you the last of your friends thats a V dont worry about it. Just wait awhile until you are positive you've found the right guy. After that and he pass all the tests we give guys to knw if they are true. Think about it hard. If you decide you still wanna go through w/ it. Get tested w/ him for everything and make him wear a condom (No matter What). I would hate for you to loose virginity and regret it like i did. So be careful and trust yourself. But it is very good to wait until marriage.

Answer 7

I mean wait as long as you can...until marriage if possib. BUT if your ready now i say go for it! I lost my "V-Card" as some call it, when i was 16. It didnt hurt much at all...at the beginning it did but after a while I couldn't really feel the pain anymore.. But then again its different answers from different girls....JUST MAKE SURE THE ONE YOU LOSE IT 2 IS THE RIGHT 1....hope this helped a lil :-)

Answer 8

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Answer 9

Wait until you are married. You may think you are ready, but you are not. You being scared is a sign saying you aren't ready. You are too young to ruin your childhood with sex. It would feel better if you waited until marriage.

Answer 10

Number one just make sure you are ready because once its gone you'll never get it back. don't do it because he wants you to or you'll end up regretting it or even disliking him. if you do use protection.
for some people it might take a couple times

Answer 11

IF YOUR SCARED AND WANT TO KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE YOU ARE NOT READY....