my best guy freind just asked me out and i like him but i also like someone else who lives really far away.i really like them both but i dont know what to do.do i go with my best guy frined who ive none since kindergarden or another guy who i have a lot in common with?if i say yes to my best friend is it risking messing things up?please i really need your help!7th grade is a pain in the butt so far...
2006-08-29 11:51:47 · 13 answers · asked by calli b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
In 7th grade, you're not ready to "go steady" -- so go out with both of them! Go out with the best guy friend and enjoy his company, and when the far-away guy comes to town go out with him. That's why there's a difference between dating and marriage.
2006-08-29 11:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by Steve H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEVENTH GRADE? First of all, you shouldn't be worried about guys at such a young age. You need to concetrate on your education, which is the most important part of growing up. If you start to get involved with boys then you will start neglecting your priorities. When I was a child, (I'm 35) I didn't even THINK about boys until I was in high school. Take my advice, go to school, concentrate on getting good grades, go to college and get a good job. When you are independent, the men will be falling at your feet.
Continue being friends with both of them. The best relationships come from friendships.
2006-08-29 19:00:30 · answer #2 · answered by QDPie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, u risk messing things up.
Think about it... are you going out with this guy, cuz the other is far away? Is it easier?
Consider ur feelings towards the long distance guy and pay notice when you heart flutters the most! This or the other??
Besides, ur risk loosing a good friend over it... but sometimes u cant see whats right under ur nose too
2006-08-29 18:57:20 · answer #3 · answered by Erkan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh to be your age again, No thanks.
Anyway, at your age, dating, or going out, isn't serious, it should just be for fun.
As one boy is far away, and you can't do anything with him, stick to your best friend., who is close to you.
It shouldn't screw things up, if you just take it, casually. Go to the movies, parties, etc. Enjoy yourself, that's what being your age is all about.
If you feel he is getting too serious, and you don't want to go that way. He's your friend, just let him know, that you aren't comfortable with that yet.
So still be good friends, and go out and have fun together, and still keep your other friend, in your life.
You needn't lose either of them.
2006-08-29 18:57:24 · answer #4 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you arent cool with a long distance relationship, and that you still want to be friends with him. tell him you can both hang out when he is out here.
also, stop dating all together, it will just make 7th grade a bigger pain in the butt for you! waite till high school!
2006-08-29 18:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by Surf n' Snow 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hormones are a bit#$%, doesn't it?, 13 years old and already getting you in trouble, you shouldn't to deal with that dilemma so early in your life, say no to both of them, you are too young, ask your mom.
2006-08-29 18:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by class4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7th grade??? jeez girl thats a lot of drama.... well i'mm in a similar situation with a close guy friend... but who do u feel more comfortable with? whose eye color favorite food and favorite color and place can u tell answer bout?? who will u see more often... who can u see yourself having a stable relationship with??
2006-08-29 18:56:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah u should go out with him,then later on when u tell the guy from far away he might get jelous & ask u out too
2006-08-29 18:55:49 · answer #8 · answered by ~Smiley Girl~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say yes to your bestfriend i did and my best friend is now my boyfriend so give your best friend a chance thats all i can say hope u get what u wan't
2006-08-29 18:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by meryl l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go for the one that you have a lot in common with.
2006-08-29 19:00:40 · answer #10 · answered by Jerry's cowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋