he says it's great when we have it and that it's not me. We've been together for almost 2 yrs and we love each other very much. We always have variety in bed but he NEVER initiates. I want to feel like I'm being taken care of. I know he's not cheating on me either because we do everything together...help!
2006-08-29 11:27:43 · 19 answers · asked by schoolgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he's not gay!!!!!!! That might be everyones first guess. I do so much for him and I feel like he take's advantage of that. He always tells me how wonderful I am, but he does work a lot, but not on weekends, and that is the ONLY time I expect it....I'm not a nympho, truly, I just want the intimacy back in our relationship
2006-08-29 11:41:08 · update #1
Some poeple is more sex driven than others. The better thing to do when it comes to sex issues is just talk to him openly. Tell him there are things that would make it even better. If he is in a relationship he should be willing to compromise. Nothing to be ashamed of, inhibitions should be let go specially when it comes to having sex with someone who you've been living for 2 years!
2006-08-29 11:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might be possible he is tired or that over the past month or so all you two have done is had sex all the time hence he needs a break for a bit If this is not the case he is depressed either at home or at work, try to find out which one and help him through it Failing this, the inevitable truth is he is "Just not that into you" and it is time to move on Falling out of love happens every day, fact of life and a reality we must deal with and move on to the next love. Every new is better than the last, but staying when things are so wrong is a mistake, for you, you deserve more, you deserve love and lovemaking now!
2016-03-27 00:32:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sometimes I wanted to feel the same way. But I always wanted to have sex even after a few years because I still found her as sexy as ever. Just sit him down and tell him you want him to initiate it more. Tell him what you want and maybe you can give him something he wants like a new video game or something. Or find out what it takes to turn him on. Yall been together for 2 yrs so just talk about it. good luck
2006-08-29 11:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by billy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do everything together, it may be a contributing factor. I remember when my partner went away for 2 weeks. When she came back, well, ... Put some space between yourselves.
ALso, see if there is something that you are doing that turns him off. This does not mean getting bigger-he may find that attractive-but it means a behavior that he finds rude or something.
Hope this helps.
He could also be tired. Does he work a lot? Help him if he does.
2006-08-29 11:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by James S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has it always been this way? Sometimes relationships have ups and downs, so to speak. Maybe he is more stressed at work or more tired. Maybe he's depressed about something. There could be any number of reasons. He may not even know for sure.
Tell him that you're worried about him.
2006-08-29 11:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there may be a possibility that he is cheating on you and then again there may not be. Maybe the sex just got boring and you both need to spice it up. Try something new like anal or something
2006-08-29 11:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by SuperSoldierGIJOE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your not keeping up your end of the relationship. Try luring him into wanting to do it more often. Either that or he's gay or cheating.
2006-08-29 11:35:02 · answer #7 · answered by Dana Day Day ♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, anything I or anyone else tells you will ultimately be guess work, so, I say, Hire a private detective, forget about it and be happy (it's hard for you women, I know), or find another guy who will gladly hump you every sixth second of the day.
The choice, as they say, is yours.
2006-08-29 11:32:40 · answer #8 · answered by monotol 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is he older than you? that would be my first guess. I don't think he is gay, but unless he has really BIG problems in his life, he definetly does not find you atractive.
2006-08-29 11:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old is he? Maybe even though it is very rare he could be telling the truth or maybe he is gay
2006-08-29 11:30:20 · answer #10 · answered by confused 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋