i have a guy friend who is really close...i thought we would just be friends but now im having more feelings about him....what should i do...i hear that friend relationships/marriages are the best....but i dont know if i want to wreck our friendship, i really want to be with him but i dont know what to do...plz help....and if i should date him how should i let him no i have feelings for him...or do i just let things take their natural course
2006-08-29 11:17:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
first dont get your hopes up till you know he feels the same about you get a mutal friend to ask someone really close to you and him to find out..if he is into you like your into him and you care for him alot..then go for it cause true friendships last through anything so even if it doesnt work out romaticly ur friendship should stay in tack unless you cheat on him and he cheats on you but that wont happen if you two are really into eachother. Next is if you dont think your friendship will survive a break up not saying there will be one and hopefully it will work out between you to..but if there is one and you guys cant remain friends then what makes you think a relationship would work in the first place.
Do your self a favor and think about eveyrthing that could go wrong and if you think no matter what you two will remain friends..then go for it...even if you dont think you two will remain friends you wont know till you talk to him about it and see how he feels...so atleast talk to him about it if nothing else..and hopefully everything works out for you...
2006-08-29 11:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u guys have been friends for awhile n u both no each other well then u should no what he likes and what he dont and if u tell him how he would react.but me i would be honest and tell him and tell him if he doesnt feel the same way then its ok we can still remain friends and i wouldnt persue it any more move on but who knows he may feel the same as you and has been scared to tell you it may work out for the best good luck
2006-08-29 18:22:01 · answer #2 · answered by ladyrena12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take the risk. i could be the best/worst thing u'v evr done but u won't kno unless u try it out.
unless u r 2 shy to do that, u can wait and see if u 2 were really ment 2 b 2gether.
2006-08-29 18:28:12 · answer #3 · answered by Babi Guh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my best friend in the 7th grade. We got married at 19. Now have two beautiful kids that are going thru hell right now because my best friend and I have grow apart into sep/divorce. We always said it would last forever, well, now I am out looking for my new best friend. So watch out what you wish for!
2006-08-29 18:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by lkk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you should just spit out the truth. and if he doesn't feel the same way maby ya'll can stay friends. and if he does...... than ya'll can take it from there.
2006-08-29 18:30:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jordan L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus come out and tell him. its worth the risk relly.... i know
2006-08-29 18:20:43 · answer #6 · answered by emilyONION 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so
2006-08-29 18:20:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u no wat u should do u should go out wit him n if u break up just tell him that u just wat to be friends wit benifits
2006-08-29 18:29:36 · answer #8 · answered by Cindy L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋