I am 34 years old, i just came out of an bad marriage that lasted 14 years. I am attracted to a man that?

Question

I work with. He won't talk to me all that often, only the other people on my dept, but yet he has show his bare stomach while in my presence, i feel so overwhelemed by this man, What does it mean, and why won't he talk to me. How can i tell if there is an interest from him as well. Sometimes I feel that he can sence the way i feel.

Answer 1

Be cautious.

Interoffice affairs rarely end well.

But sometimes....

Answer 2

Sorry to hear that, but you're still young. Be careful and take it easy. Try outside office people first. Get into the swing nice and slow. If you take a jump, the fall may be too much. Good luck

Answer 3

Honey, You need to take time to get to know yourself again, this overwhelming feeling you have is what you THINK might happen, its a fantasy you've created in your head that is proabaly totally diff from ur bad marriage.

Don't jump to another guy just yet. Be you for a bit, hang with girlfriends and spoil yourself first.

Answer 4

"...34 years old, i just..."

Whoa. how long you been by yourself.
I'd been married 21 years...

I need to see someone be by their-self.
jumping from one relationship to another = toooo needy, co-dependent, not self-reliant, etc.
Who wants someone like that?


Not talking to you at workkkk...
are you at different levels in the co and that would be against co policy?

take it away from work. even if it is OK with policy at work = too much drama. actors and actress have control of their little groups,, you know the type...

at work too much wind
I hate wind
makes it hard to start a fire with your lighter....
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and when the rumors reigns supreme then who gets to leave?
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Answer 5

He's shy about you. He's in love with you and he's probably afraid that you will turn him down if he asks you out. Just don't listen to those guys that say business relationships won't work out. That'll probably just make you nervous and quickly end the relationship.

Answer 6

You're rebounding now give it time
Never fish in the company pond
Remember, " A dog never craps where he eats"

Answer 7

Watch the rebound mode..I was there once,,,Talk to him and let talking do for a bit....then a month or 2 ask him out for lunch.
but just give it time...

Answer 8

Ask him to go to lunch with you. You need to get a dialogue started, to find out whether you're wasting your time thinking about him.

Answer 9

Are u looking for recognition that your still attractive, your available...i'd wait for him to make the first move, if he's interested he'll come running to 'you'

Answer 10

so be careful workplace relationships can only lead to bad things, ill show you my stomach if you want, look elsewhere you don't want to loose your job over this