Ok me and my friend made a deal that we both had to ask someone out in the next two weeks but I really do like the girl that I'm gonna ask out and I don't want that later on somebody will tell her that it was all part of a deal or bet or anything like that because what I feel for her is true. Any advice?
2006-08-29 10:32:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Tell her first, before she finds out from someone else.
But don't just blurt it out.
Start by telling her that you wanted to ask her out for a long time but were too nervous.
Then tell her about the deal and that you hope she's not mad because the only reason you agreed to the deal is because you were gonna ask her out anyway sooner or later.
Then - and here's the key - tell her you understand if she's mad at you. Look down at the floor and say "I'm so sorry. Can you forgive me?" She'll be glad you were honest with her and say she forgives you.
I can almost guarantee this will work. Girls almost always fall for the wounded puppy look and the sincere apology.
Sorry, ladies, just being honest. I should know. My husband uses that on me all the time! : D
2006-08-29 10:47:34 · answer #1 · answered by Mary* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be honest about this one! If she finds out, and you two are actually dating, it will hurt her and end any hope of a future that you two might have. Just tell her that you have liked her for a long time, but were very nervous about asking her out. Tell her that it took this bet with your friend to realize that you needed to make a move, because some other guy who wasn't as nervous might be you to it, and you didn't want to loose the chance of going out with her.
Chances are she'll be a little pi$$ed off, but nearly as much as if she found out later.
2006-08-29 17:36:46 · answer #2 · answered by Autumn BrighTree 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she might get upset by that, so you could be honest from the start and tell her you were going to ask her out anyways, but there is also a bet and tell her not to worry about it that you really like her and to you she is not a bet.
2006-08-29 17:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by Sky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't call it a bet. Tell her (if it comes up at all) that you were so in awe of her and terrified of rejection that you made the deal in order to motivate yourself.
2006-08-29 17:36:49 · answer #4 · answered by lcraesharbor 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either don't ask her out or Quit the bet & ask her out cuz u like her.
2006-08-29 17:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by Just Another Disposable Teen x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is some advice, don't make bets
2006-08-29 17:42:48 · answer #6 · answered by royal_crown78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, this sounds like those movies She's All That and "Not Another Teen Movie"
2006-08-29 17:39:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to yell ya.
2006-08-29 17:37:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋