I know she's not a big fan of bowling, but it's always me that has to ask to go. Do you think she's just going to make me happy?
2006-08-29 10:00:53 · 29 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I want to have a sausage fingers party, where we drink beer, eat sausage and you stand up and ask misdirected questions all night....of course you and I would have to sneak into another room for a few minutes...hell i just need 5 minutes, maybe 8, i tend to like to get in and get out
but you can't tell anyone that you'd be giving me your jokes for me to use at work, 8 minutes tops would be enough to write them down in my notebook. do you ever write jokes in notebooks?
2006-08-29 12:38:18 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs.♥ Krasinski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sheesh, you have to ask? Well here's a clue: Next time, instead of saying, "Hey honey, it's bowling night, let's go!", ask her instead, "Gee, what would you like to do tonight?" If she suggests she'd like to go over to my place and have some fun with me in my hot tub or maybe take a nice ride in my Corvette down for a nice romantic moonlight walk (and everything that follows) on a secluded beach after watching a wonderful sunset in our secret spot like we always do whenever we get the chance, well then I'd say your worst fears are confirmed.... BUT MAYBE, JUST MAYBE, SHE'LL SAY, "LET'S GO BOWLING HONEY, YOU KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVE TO GO BOWLING WITH YOU" and then you can rest easy & relax and I'll just wait until next time it's not bowling night and she slips away. I mean, I can deal with that, if you can, OK?
2006-08-29 18:59:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably, but that's what marriage is all about: compromise, and participating in your spouses interests even if you find it to be somewhat 'dull". You asking this type of question makes me think that you are feeling a sense of guilt maybe...because she is going bowling to make you "happy" and perhaps you feel a bit selfish in her doing so. I wouldn't though, and would view it as more of a positive gesture on her part....because she loves you.
2006-08-29 17:21:16 · answer #3 · answered by Jon R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it does not mean that she is going just to make you happy, it could mean that you just asked her before she had a chance to ask you. Is you wife any good at bowling? If not, then maybe she is a tad reluctant. Ask your wife if bowling is a hobbie that she likes.
2006-08-29 17:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by iam1shoppindiva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said she isn't a big fan of it why dont you ask her what she wants to do Im sure if you take turns doing stuff you want to do it will be fair and she will be happy. She might like to try surfing or dancing try to make her happy too!
2006-08-29 17:04:52 · answer #5 · answered by Mya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes maybe she is just not interested in bowling
2006-08-29 17:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by Jimbo23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don;t you think that is a question you should be asking her? Like I keep saying communications is the key, talk to her, find out what she would like to do for a change
2006-08-29 17:07:42 · answer #7 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.... She doesnt want to go... quit forcing that poor woman into bowling when she doesnt like it... BE A MAN>>> JOIN A LEAGUE!!!
2006-08-29 17:05:26 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she likes for you to be the agressive one, I am like that with my husband too. I like for him to initiate the love making. Don't sweat it, I have the same problem.
2006-08-29 17:07:25 · answer #9 · answered by blu2u1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bowling is awesome...That's too bad she doesn't enjoy it, but what a good wife to sacrifice her happiness so you can blay with your balls! =)
2006-08-29 17:04:11 · answer #10 · answered by Brea1243 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋