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im no ur usual girl so if u can help me that would be a big help im pretty shy and i dont no how i can be more outgoing so pleaz help

2006-08-29 09:47:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style Other - Beauty & Style

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Be friendly, sociable, and outgoing: speak to people in the hallway, don't just hang with one clique. Most importantly, be nice to everyone. I won homecoming queen all 3 years I ran in high school by doing this.

2006-08-29 10:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well, the first step is looking popular. it doesnt matter about ur body shape, but just as long as u dress confidentally people will think that u are confident. the second step is making frends. u may be shy but people will just think that ur antisocial. just go up to someone and ask them a simple question like if they know were romm suchand such is.wen they answer say thanks see u later. wen u do see them say hi . by the way i never introduced myself. im such and such. this is a simple and extremely good way to make friends. frends are the key source to popularity. also, if someone spreads rumors about you stand up for yourself and dont let it go by. this way people will no u have a mind of ur own

2006-08-29 09:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by blondie 1 · 0 0

I used to be really shy too. so shy that i only had a couple friends. i became more social, iguess. i made new friends, and that made my shyness go away. im not the most popular girl in school, but i have alot of friends now. i went from having 3 to 4 friends to 45 or so. hope i helped.

2006-08-29 09:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Get MORE In the In Crowd. Get over ur shyness and YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE. dont be a follower, be a leader. I guess u hav to realy try ti make new friendds by ppl that hav ur sam classes that sit next 2 u. i had that same problem but then i got ovr my shyness like literally LAST WEEK. GOOD LUCK

2006-08-29 09:51:16 · answer #4 · answered by hollisterGIRLchills_at_the BEACH 2 · 0 0

Just amke a goal to make as many firends as you can. Talk to anyone it doent matter. Have fun dress nice try to look good everyday. Organize big groups to hand out on the week end. Make sure to talk to anyone and everyone. If your too shy then you wont be, you need to break out of your shell. Have fun and good luck

2006-08-29 09:50:46 · answer #5 · answered by JOJO 2 · 1 0

Just be yourself and get the best grades you can.... school is for LEARNING, its not a popularity contest and people shouldn't bow to peer pressure when they are different. The most popular girl at my school is the one who don't act like something she's not, she's an excellent student, smart, cute, and is always friendly to others.

2006-08-29 09:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by Johnny D 2 · 1 0

first off, try talking 2 some popular girls who sit near u in class. get 2 know them, and then, slowly, start sitting with her and her friends @ lunch, if they don't mind. join in on their conversations. be social and happy and get 2 know them, 2. meanwhile, be open 2 anyone @ school, and soon, everyone will know who u are. that will lead 2 popularity. good luck.

2006-09-01 15:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by gelly700 3 · 0 0

Break out of your shell around a few people and they may spread the word. Just chill out and try to realize that no one is perfect, we all crap. yeah...that stuff didn't make me super popular, but a lot of people know me and for the right reasons.

2006-08-29 09:51:36 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Victoria♥ 2 · 0 0

popularity doesn't matter. I was in with the popular crowd in middle school and they weren't nice to me or to other people. They weren't my real friends. Just find good friends who love you and will always be there for you.

2006-08-29 09:50:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

Have sex with all the boys...you will move up in class and you move up in boys...Joking.....Just be your self...popular comes in many ways join a club...believe me you will meet more people than if you were in the "IN crowd" because when your in the "IN crowd" those are the only people you get to know...

2006-08-29 09:50:19 · answer #10 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 0 1

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