He took my KINDNESS for WEAKNESS! My, now ex-bf, started working and still didn't give a dime toward a bill or anything. I let him move in because he told me his roomates were taking his money, not paying rent and got evicted, he still hasn't paid the $300 cell phone bill that he ran up talking to his little whores, cell phone that I bought for him, might i add. He took a schedule that dosen't work with us having one vehicle, well my vehicle, and I asked him not to take the job and find something that would fit into our schedule and he said that those are the hours he wants to work and that I should change my schedule. He gets a financial aid check from school and goes out and buys shoes, clothes, and fast food, etc. I feel stupid for letting him use me like this and I wouldn't normally put up with this bullshit, but he had a lot going on with him and I really wanted to be there for him. I don't want to be bitter about the situation, I have a lot more serious things going on myself.
2006-08-29 09:47:02 · 7 answers · asked by soul child 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He did buy me some shoes, purse, etc. with the money and I got upset. He said that I was ungrateful and never satisfied, but I would have rathered him use the money for the bills. And since he said he would give me $400 when he got the financial aid check, I was expecting it. I have spent thousands of unecesary dollars dealing with this fool, everytime we went somewhere having to foot the bill, $40-$50 gas every other day riding his *** around, getting **** fo his child, man whatever needed to be done, I took care of it because I really cared about him. And I still wouldn't be trippin if them bitches wouldn't have started callIf someone would have took my grown *** in, put a roof over my head, let me use their vehicle to get around in, help with all my issues, my kids, dealt with baby mama drama, been a friend and listen to all the bullshit that I was holding in making me crazy, I would always respect them enough to not cheat, and would do anything I could do to show my appreciation
2006-08-29 10:12:20 · update #1
Sorry to be running off like this, but like I said I need to vent. And I have one more thing to add. He has a very small D**k, he could hardly make me *** when he went downtown, so see I wasn't acting like this because of sex. I really love him.
2006-08-29 10:18:18 · update #2
Well the one good thing is that he's an "ex" boyfriend now = )
2006-08-29 09:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by libra_girl_jc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy there is something in the water...I HATE STUPID POS GUYS...except my boyfriend doesnt use me for my money and he pays most of the bills because i didnt have a car so he drove me back and forth to work till i could get a car but i offered to pay the bills and im now paying half of everything cause im all settled...but hes very controling and he thinks no that i have my car im going to cheat on him and im not aloud to talk to any of my old friends from before i met him and when we fight he has a bad anger problem and hits things and someitmes im afraid i might be next...but for your situation take him to court!!! Get your money back...and make his life even more screwed up cause hes just a low life who probably cheated on you with stupid skanky myspace whores!!
2006-08-29 10:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by gel_is_now 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he certainly did take advantage of you. But now what can you do, the cell bill is in your name so now you have to pay for it. He is being very selfish and maybe you need to do the same. Dont share your car with him, it's yours. You don't need to change your schedule. And he doesn't buy you anything when he gets his check. Yeah that is so selfish. Give him the boot, your obviously doing good for yourself and can find someone better.
2006-08-29 09:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by Susa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just love these complicated ridiculously-long, meandering, single-sentence questions that no one can possibly answer! How the hell can we offer any kind of reasonably good response when we have no idea about the situation?
Thank god there is a character limit, or we have to read even more of this pathetic tale.
2006-08-29 09:54:47 · answer #4 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was using you, way to go for dumping him. Guys like that just want the free ride. He was looking for a sugar mama and you worked for awhile. Your better off without him!!
2006-08-29 09:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by Becky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out from under! When he grows up if that ever happens, take another look - maybe!
2006-08-29 09:56:59 · answer #6 · answered by Ilsa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you say Freeloader? Kick him out.
2006-08-29 09:53:26 · answer #7 · answered by ask the eightball 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋