even if it's not that significant?
I never had a girlfriend, i'm 26 yr old guy now. but if i'm to be completely honest one of the things i would tell her is that i had strippers at my house, just to look at them and had lap dances. That's the only sexual thing i've done, that and having masterbated. Do girls need to know this or can i just keep it secret. Would it bother girls as far as to not like me because of that, even if i'm a good person?
2006-08-29 09:28:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
unless you have sexual diseases that can affect her. What you do in your past is none of anyone businesses!!
2006-08-29 11:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I wouldn't even bother bringing it up. If she asks about your previous sexual experiences, then I'd mention it, and she'll probably be relieved that you've never really had any sexual encounters in the past (not trying to put you down or anything - we all live life at our own pace).
The plus side to being a virgin at your age, is that some women (like the first 'answerer' of this question) find that sort of thing a turn-on because they can teach you techniques that will help them get off and you won't feel the pressure of "not being good enough" (because your girl is willing to teach you) and they don't have to worry about disease, so yeah, don't worry about it. It's like a blank slate, or something...
In short, if you've found the right girl, she won't care about something like that.
2006-08-29 09:48:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I wouldn't just jump right in and reveal this information on the first date, however if you have a serious relationship and she is asking about your sexual past - you can limit your answer to the question being asked. It might turn a girl off because you have objectified the female species, instead focus on you're not having much if any experience, as a good thing. Less chance of STD etc...
2006-08-29 09:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by hatsforhope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl. If the girl really likes you she'll be okay with it. Everybody has a past. Just assure her you won't do those things now that you have her (as long as that is the case). If you want the relationship to last you have to be honest. Your past will come out eventually if you try to hide it.
2006-08-29 09:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by Liss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really don't have what most would call a sexual past. You are a virgin and that is a scarse thing these days. Most girls would love to be dating a virgin, and teach him things! The best rule of thumb with your girlfriend is to tell her what you have done. She'll appreciate it!
2006-08-29 09:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by mochachinna76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oka.. thats prety sweet taht r a virgin.. its sorta turn on.. btu i wouldnt tell her about havin strippers in ur house unless she asks..
2006-08-29 11:04:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to lie about that?? tell her you're a virgin that's hot !!!
2006-08-29 09:31:15 · answer #7 · answered by kdj204 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋