There's this girl at band camp who brings me down. She is constantly talking about how her mall is the richest mall in america, how all the guys love her, and all that. There are not many people in my cabin who I can talk to except for her, and its really annoying. What should I do?
2006-08-29 09:23:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Sounds like her self-confidence is low and she makes up for by trying to impress people. If she is the only person you can talk to, ignore those comments and maybe she will stop saying them to you if you don't react.
2006-08-29 09:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by bullets2112 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an important lesson and I am glad you have learned it. We need to choose our friends carefully and you have found that this girl does not like herself and feels she needs to brag and try to make herself feel good. Band camp won't last forever. Try to change the subject as often as you can to something that you both like......clothes, movies, etc. and try to hang out with others if you can to get a break from all of that.
2006-08-29 17:12:45 · answer #2 · answered by heartwhisperer2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres a girl in my grade like that. only you say something and shes says oh thats not much and then she alborates on it its so annoying! I just want to slap her on the face. Try and talk to other people in your cabin or make friends in other cabins.
2006-08-29 16:27:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking about something INTERESTING instead?
So she has a bid shopping centre near her? So what? Did she build it, does she own it?
All the guys love her? Why? Is she that easy?
Is any of it true?
2006-08-29 16:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her hopefully that will work if you react to her it will only get worse that is what she wants try talking to people in other cabins that aren't so self absorbed with themselves
2006-08-29 17:19:29 · answer #5 · answered by chiefs fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be outgoing and try to talk to other people, but if your really desperate for someone and that girls the only one around shut her up by you talking about things she doesnt know about, politics, music, whatever it is that she cant go on about
2006-08-29 16:28:03 · answer #6 · answered by bug9bug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give her the benefit..she's trying to make u feel badd, stay away from her, and tell her off..u need a friend who won't make u feel like crap...
2006-08-29 17:59:10 · answer #7 · answered by [dANiiE♥♫]™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say the same thing back to her.
2006-08-29 16:27:06 · answer #8 · answered by becca4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick her *** send her to icu and plead insanity.
2006-08-30 20:45:52 · answer #9 · answered by payasa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋