I found out my boyfriend's cheated for the last ten months. I found her email address - should I email?

Question

I've read their emails - she knew about me. Do I bother getting angry with her too or just leave it? I've dumped him already!

Answer 1

yes yes yes

Answer 2

Tough question. One the one hand, it's better to be the bigger person and just walk away from all of it. But if it was me? Yup. I'd email her and let her know that he was cheating on both of us for the last 10 months and if she wants proof, tell her you'll send a copy of your phone bill. He'll try to tell her you're lying or something so he can stay with her, so offer up proof and then tell her that maybe you and she should meet him at a coffee shop just to tell him what an a s s he is.

Answer 3

Just hold your head high and walk away. Its not worth it. You will only cause yourself more pain if you find out further more personal or indepth details. You deserve better, don't sink to their level. Just take some time for yourself then move on because there are some better guys out there. Listen to your heart, intuition and head then make a decision about where to go from here.

Answer 4

Don't do it...... You will end up looking like the fool... she will probably tell you thing that will leave you feeling more depressed and hurt. It is best that you just walk away. All the things she will tell you, will only leave you fuming with nosolution, what they have done is something you can not change. Focus your energy on bigger and better things. The best revenge is showering your affection on someone who truly deserves it.

Answer 5

What's the point, just get on with your life, you have dumped him,its all over, if it was someone you knew, then yes but if not, don't worry, she probably done you a favour, because he sounds like a real dork.......have a good life

Answer 6

If you email her you have to be prepared to take it all the way. Do you know for sure he is cheating? Are you prepared to break up with him? If you stay with him and dont find out for sure it will bug you for the rest of your relationship. You need to decide what is best for you.

Answer 7

I think your well within your right to mail her, but don't be nasty, just inform her that he was with you cos she may not even know about you, don't contact your boyfriend to confront him, let her do that bit for you......it'll have more impact. And remember if u get nasty with her she's just gonna think your a psyco ex and he'll be able to talk her round, you want her to see him for the scum he is too. girls should stick together. I'm sorry you got hurt, it's hard but you will get over it, i promise.xxxx

Answer 8

He was unfaithful - he's gone now. Good riddance. She knew about you - that says she is as bad as him, though probably completely spun in a web of his lies as to his reasons why he was cheating on you. Not worth emailing her. It just lowers you to her level. And, you are better than that, aren't you? Walk away with dignity. There are better men out there and there is one with your name on him, okay?

Answer 9

i would use his email or msn messenger to pretend i'm him and see what she say's then you can get more proof if he really is. But be careful you could get hurt either way if he has been cheating he obviously has no respect for you or he would have let you go by now.

Good luck xxx

Let us know how it went.

Answer 10

e-mail her and ask whats going on,if she tells u,go to your bf and ask him out,cause first u should try to find out if it is really true what she is telling u.i mean it happened before that the girls knew about the gf u know.and if its true that he did cheat on u then ,hey turn around show him your back and leave without saying anything.
so good luck and be strong!!

Answer 11

I would email her and tell her that he was with you she might not even know anything about you. I would kick him to the curb with his clothes and change the locks on the doors.