I like this guy. Its on and off though. Eventhough he has shitted on me many time. I still think of him. However I don't want to go back with him. Altough we share 2 beautiful kids. I just don't want to get myself hurt. Me still loving him is that normal. What can I do to stop thinking of him???
2006-08-29 09:17:48 · 11 answers · asked by jejy01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I was married once and she cheated on me and basically treated me like dirt and we have one beautiful son together. At first I kept thinking about her but she kept stepping on me and now I'm going to have to take her to court because she won't let me see my son. My answer to your question is if you love him it is unrequited love and you should look elsewhere. I wish you much luck and hope for your best if you should ever need to talk email me.
2006-08-29 09:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by icedvamp667 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know you don't want to go back, remind yourself of why. Make a list of everything you dislike about him and stick it somewhere you can see it. Loving him still is normal. I love my ex but I just know it won't work but I just remind myself why if I ever find my mind wondering. It sounds to me though like your not sure, maybe your fear of being hurt is making you say you don't want him back. Either way he sounds like he shifts a lot too. Take some time, spend time with friends, take up a hobbie, start a class, but keep busy, and see what else is out there. I wish you all the best and hope you find happiness.
2006-08-29 16:27:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing can help you get over your ex better than time. If you feel like you already know the outcome of another attempt at a relationship with him, for the sake of your children just work on having a parenting relationship. Another heartbreak would only make that more difficult for your family.
2006-08-29 16:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not be thinking about him thats for sure find a hobby or something or start dating again keep yourself busy if anything do something for yourself for a change and forget about guys for now. take sometime for yourself..... and then the right one will come along remember he has to look for you.. not the other way around
2006-08-29 16:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by Pamela L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whenever u start thinking about him,remember the hard times he gave u & how bad he made u feel,how many times he didn't care about this luv.
Luv,if not to the one who deserves it,is just a pain..Believe me the right question isn't "Do I luv him?" but "Does he luv me?"
True luv is so precious,never give it to some1 who doesn't appreciate it.
Good Luck :)
2006-08-29 16:48:42 · answer #5 · answered by Heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of someone else. do something to keep ur mind of things. go out with ur girlfriends and hang out. remind yourself what happens between you two. is it worth it?
2006-08-29 16:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by Beca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, loving him is normal. Try changing friends (if you have mutual friends..)itll be hard but worth it.
2006-08-29 16:21:24 · answer #7 · answered by rachey b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get another guy that you and your kids love. dont just go out with him because your on the rebound, go out with him because you care.
2006-08-29 16:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of all the awful things hes done to you and then you wont like him anymore
2006-08-29 16:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by kaitlyn t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question all your feelings and go after your reson first.
2006-08-29 16:20:47 · answer #10 · answered by and17_60 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋