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Question

i have this problem mi breast r so smalli am a size30a and im 12 so i dont fit in at school very well is there any way i could increase them {make em bigger} caz 30a is for 4th graders not me pleaz help

Answer 1

i say u could try a push up...

Answer 2

Hi, Just wanted to say be yourself and give yourself a big hug everyday you are who you are and that is special.
You don't fit in a school? Well try making friends with people who like you just as you are and as you grow and mature they will remain your friends.
Have hope you will grow honey and if you don't that is OK too. I have a daughter who is 27 now and she still wears a child size 14 she is the mother of two boys. The 10 year old is as big as she is and she is very much loved by her family and friends.
She went through a divorce not long ago, but now has a new boyfriend who is just crazy over her, he says she is perfect in every way.
She is 4'11' and weighs 92lbs.
She never grew past 10 years old so honey be patient.
To get an idea of what you might look like full grown check out your mom, sisters, aunts, grandmothers. All these women have passed to you some very special traits and They will come at the time they are suppose too.
I know this is not helping a lot right now and I know you are sad and feel alone, but you aren't.
I was the odd girl with large hips and bust in 5th grade I looked like I was 16 or 17 and the boys would not leave me alone, I didn't know much about boys then and was frightened most of the time. So be patient honey and enjoy your childhood you will be grown before you know it.

Answer 3

I know you don't like it, but well your body is your body. I mean your 12, you have plenty of years to grow. Don't start to stress out just yet. I mean alot of girls develop there breasts faster than others and slower. Be happy with what you got, because you are not old enough to have breast implants, and there is no "special" treatment or meds or anything to increase your breast size, you can get fat, but then your breasts will only be bigger, and you'll be fat, so then if you loose the weight it will be back to your size again. So really don't worry about it. Be happy with what you have. Have something is better than not having anything at all. And well really I hope you never get breast implants, because as a guy believe me, we like all natural girls. I mean the last thing you want is for a guy to find out your fake, yeah you have the big breasts, but now you are considered fake, Some guys don't, but most do. And you will be wasting your money to attract the wrong attention/guys

So be happy with what you have, just wait and see how they grow. And don't be so worried about it. You'll find alot better guys with the breast size you have now, because they will like you for you. Big breasted girls end up having sex at a very young age, and regret and hate having extremely older guys going after them. They are the ones prone to rape. I know you don't want any of that. So well take care, be happy, and wait it out

Answer 4

Listen here honey. You are too young too be thinking about how big your breast are. When I was your age I was still playing with dolls, and my breast weren't that big either when I was your age. You have time to grow every body grows at a different rate. Mine didn't grow until I was in 8th grade. Now I am a size 40DD. Trust me you are better off with small breast any way. You will have less health problems, because if you have big breast they will get in the way of doing everything. Love yourself and forget everybody else. Have confidence and dont listen to what any body tells you about yourself.

Answer 5

Don't be sad! Listen, I know it's tough now. Try to believe me though...there's not one person your age who believes they have a "normal" body. Everyone either thinks their breasts are too small or too big. The truth is, there IS no normal.

Honestly, Americans tend to go through puberty very young because of all the fat in their diet, which increases estrogen production and makes our age at puberty lower and lower. But your breasts can change/get larger until you are 16 or 17. That's completely normal. In fact, since you didn't develop prior to 12 years old, that could mean you are HEALTHIER than all those other girls who went through it very young. It could mean you have less fat in your diet, have developed more lean body mass, and will have fewer weight issues in the future.

Larger breasts are limiting in some ways. I would LOVE to be able to go for a jog without JIGGLING! You don't have to worry about expensive sports bras, you look nice in clothes and don't have the problem of looking slutty in anything with a low-ish neckline.

As for boys, you've got plenty of time to start worrying about what THEY'RE thinking. But lots of boys and men prefer girls with more athletic shapes.

If you have confidence that you are just right for YOU at this stage in your life and project the air that you ARE normal, everyone else will believe that too. I know it's hard...everyone wants to fit in. But you CAN develop the attitude that THEY should all be trying to fit in with YOU. You don't need to change for anyone else!

Good luck!

Answer 6

There are bras that will lift what you have ( push it all together, and give you more cleavage) and then there are bras that will pad what you don't have, to make it look like you have bigger boobs.

If you feel you really NEED a better bra (I like having a smaller chest, guys can be bad enough about looking at your boobs. Why give them more reason?)
I would go for a padded bra that is water filled, or gel filled in the "padding" area. These feel the most realistic.

Watch out for the other girls though, if you suddenly grow bigger boobs, they'll notice. Be sure you're confident enough to deal with any teasing.

Answer 7

sorry 2 say this, but it's mostly genetics that depend on your bra size. there is a "weird and annoying" way i know (no, i haven't tried it, so i can't guarentee it will work). since breasts are made out of fat, u could try gaining weight. however, i don't recommend this if u are anywhere near overweight.

since u are only 12, it's ok. don't worry. hopefully, they'll enlarge. have u just began puberty? cuz it can take a while if u are still young. my sister had that problem, 2 and she grew out of it. =)

Answer 8

some people have them and some people don't. you still have some growing to do so take it easy on yourself. Having big breasts is no fun belive me. i wear a 40DD and when i go underwear shopping, all the cute bras are in little sizes. Also, you can't run, jump, or play without your breasts hitting you in the face and they can make you back sore so when you have reals problems, then you can complain. consider yourself blessed.

Answer 9

hummm, people would probubly tell you not to worry about it, which would be the right answer, but when your 12, you really would like somthing better! i know, ive been there. the thing that really works is a waterbra you could get at victoria's secret... you stick in jell packs in them

Answer 10

If i were you, i really wouldn't want to actract myself yet, because as soon as you start getting bigger.... boyz are gonna wanna touch them specially if you are 12years old. Boyz at your age.......yeh. So i really would not go there yet. Just wait, because they will get in your way.

Answer 11

hi trust me you will grow on your own your only 12 i didn't grow until i was 17 so just have fun in your young age