2006-08-29 08:57:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It isn't easy...there is a part of you that will constantly try to protect you from experiencing that type of pain again by constantly questioning everything. What you have to do is not listen to this part of you. You need to realize each relationship is unique and deserves the right to succeed or fail on its own merit. Sure, you are going to probably get hurt and have a few bad relationships along the way, but only by opening yourself up to the point where you can be hurt can you ever really experience true love.
2006-08-29 09:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at life in the positive way, take this time to enjoy life.It takes diferent people, different amount of time to heal, start to trust and move on with new life.It all depends on how you go on about making changes in your life and using what you learned from the past to your advantage in the future.Do all the stuff you could not do when you were married.Go travel around the world and meet new people.Enjoy your independance for a while. Whatever you do, do not RUSH into another realtionship just for fear of being lonely.You could get hurt again while still healing and that would break your confidence even more and scare you.
2006-08-29 16:23:09 · answer #2 · answered by Mark n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should never lose trust. Love always like it's your first time and if the ones you choose take advantage of it they will just not worth it.Love is a great thing.Believe that one day you'll find it. It may not work out with a guy.It could be a child's love evrything. Love has many ways.
Move on, there are so many things u will live, enjoy, endure.Life is perfect with all happiness and sadness involved.Smile.You
are alive.And It may sound like way too romantic but I mean it.
2006-08-29 16:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by BlondieGd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you take time for yourself. Learn more about yourself and what makes you happy. When you find someone you need to trust them until they give you a reason not to. You cannot punish future lovers for the mistkes of your ex.
2006-08-29 16:01:42 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time and it will all happen when you lest expect it you will start to like someone and then that when you know when you start to trust and love again but it takes time and much time. Your heart will always have a scare but it will heal.
2006-08-29 16:06:58 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A day at a time.
2006-08-29 16:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have a couple years to deal with the pain, you don't.
2006-08-29 16:05:17 · answer #7 · answered by Cypher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give yourself time....especially if it was a long relationship. You need to regroup and recover but don't stay home and mope
2006-08-29 16:01:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just takes time... Try excersizing...making yourself look good, will make you feel better.
2006-08-29 15:58:59 · answer #9 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
counseling helps but ultimately it's time. you'll need time.
2006-08-29 16:00:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋