Ok, I've been in a relationship with someone for a couple of years now, and I'm ready to go further in the relationship physically-i'm not lookin for intercourse but i'm willing to do oral sex-thing is i've NEVER actually done it so i was wondering how exactly do you go about it-to make it less awkward what are some things that guys like for their women to do in that respect (nothing degrading) and is swallowing a must or is it cliche all guys like that? thanks all.
2006-08-29 08:49:23 · 8 answers · asked by desireddisease15 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't swallow if you don't want to. Guys should just be happy they are getting oral (and believe me, he will be), if the girl wants to swallow it's fine, but it should be your choice. You can't really go wrong when giving oral, just do what comes naturally and a guy will let you know what he's especially enjoying and encourage you to do it more.
2006-08-29 10:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you and your partner will have to figure out what is right for you. What one person may see as degrading, may be the best thing for another. To each his own, you know? Take your time and make sure you and your partner communicate. You'll get it eventually. Make sure you are ready though. I thought I was ready for the "next step" when I was 15. I wasn't, and it put a bad taste in my mouth (quite literally!) for a good long while.
2006-08-29 15:57:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay... I am going to get a little graphic but let me first say this is something I am very very very good but I refuse to share all my secrets. Yes, swalling is a must. guys love there balls sucked. do not bite(not hard anyway ) some guy love a finger in the *** once in a whaile but they will not admit that among friends and always suck from different angles... if that makes any sense???? Thats all I am willing to share.... enjoy yourself!!!! I always do
2006-08-29 16:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by moontreefairy76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best advice I can give you is just slip down there and give it a nice kiss, then start playing with it with your tongue, once hes excited just slip it into your mouth and stroke it with your mouth wile moving your tongue around.. Ask him if he likes it and does he want you to do anything else wile your down there.. As for swallowing, thats up to you, my girl does it alot...And yes guys love to be sucked off.Sorry cant be more verbal we are on answeers and I dont want to be kicked off...Your friend from Tennessee...ROB
2006-08-29 16:02:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Swallowing is a must. It is not that bad and you will get a taste of it after the 10th time or so.
You need to stretch yourself out, seriously with a banana or something or it is going to hurt like h*ll!
2006-08-29 15:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by BadAdvice 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Practice by sucking a hard-boiled egg thru a paper towel tube.
He'll propose to you at that point.
2006-08-29 16:02:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me it will never be awkward prob on ur part but not his....just get in the mood...i mean really horny and just pull his pants down and get to work...any more ?'s contact me
2006-08-29 15:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by Cassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a cliche, just do what you feel is right. But don't bite :-)
Have fun.
M.
2006-08-29 15:55:30 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋