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hi i am a 17 year old guy and not too long ago i cheated on my girlfriend now of 7 months and she recently cheated on me. she said she is sorry and said she said she got cought up in the moment and dosnt know why she did it. i dumped her then took her back cuz she took me back when i did it so i didnt wanna feel bad we still loved each other so why not try to make it work right? but now i feel more alert and worry and somewhat jealous and not trusting her just like she couldnt trust me and still really dosnt. so is it that bad to read her msn chat logs or ask her things like what took so long and who she called. cuz i dnt want this to happen again so i try to get her to tell me these things so i can sleep better at night. we stop talking to thoese people we had did stuff with thx god! but we both wanna make it work and im not really seeing that in her she said shes not a cheater or lyer she hates em yet she did it shes a hipicrit. so i just need ur help to see what you think thanks:)

2006-08-29 08:33:46 · 28 answers · asked by m just a love machine 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

28 answers

Break up with her. If a guy cheats, it's no big deal. If a girl cheats, she's a ho! for life.

Do you want to disrespect yourself by going out with a ho! ?

2006-08-29 08:42:55 · answer #1 · answered by Badspe11er 3 · 0 1

At least u now have both done it!Ok sorry.U should really have a long discussion before getting back together for good.It's great that u love her but u both cheated on each other and sth says that sth was wrong. So, u should really promise to yourselves that another attractive girl or boy shouldn't be the reason for you to spoil your relationship when you love each other!What kind of love is this?When you love someone u love him-her!!!Be together, and then trust each other. If u trust each other u sleep well at night. Have a really serious discussion and be really honest. What things went wrong?If you ever feel the urge to cheat then before you cheat u break up.That's the best thing.Good luck!!

2006-08-29 08:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You two clearly have some serious unresolved issues. Both of you cheating, not making things easier. You two need to sit down with each other and decide whether you both want to be in this relationship or not and if you do you need to decide on some ground rules, like for instance no cheating. Its better that you get things out in the open and deal with the necessary issues. If you can resolve your issues then you can decide if there is a future for the relationship. Good luck.

2006-08-29 08:40:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think you both need someone new. Neither of you will ever trust the other in the long run. I think you are now just together because you don't want to be alone. But sticking with a known cheater is not a good long term idea, even for another cheater.

2006-08-29 08:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by Rich Z 7 · 0 0

You're already dealing with all this mess and you've only been together for 7 months????

You will probably never know for sure if she cheats again just like she will never know for sure if you do. You've broken each other's trust and it will take a long long time to repair.

Seven months is a short amount of time and 17 is a young age. Start fresh with someone new and try not to cheat and lie to her.

2006-08-29 08:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by Colleen 2 · 0 0

I seriously think you both should just be friends seriously. Instead of being in a relationship that is going nowhere. You busy worring if she is still cheating checking up on her every mood is not going to change anything, trust me this will only make her more angry and mad, in the end she is going to end up hating you. If you both don't trust one another then really don't continue to be in a relationship. You both can just be friends, you will be there when she needs you and she can be there when you need her. It is nothing wrong with being homies lovers and friends(HLF). But this way you both can move on cause I know for a fact that you both are still looking at other people who you are attractive to and you want to be with them.

2006-08-29 10:03:06 · answer #6 · answered by PurpleMoon031 2 · 0 0

well you both cheated on one another so if you can't trust her i suggest you leave her but you shouldn't be mad if she came out and asked you the same questions you ask her because how does she know that you ain't cheating on her again i mean you did it once you can do it again i think you should both take some time apart and just figure out what you both really want and if your love for each other is real strong then everything will be fine but if you allow all the jealousy and envy to get in the way it's best to not even to continue on with each other. good luck!

2006-08-29 08:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ok, mutually as i'm very professional-decision, you're utilising abortion as a variety of delivery administration, and that's ridiculous. initiate utilising protection. That being pronounced, she cheated on you, and there isn't any way until eventually the toddler is born to comprehend who the father is. you ought to no longer forgive her. you will possibly be extreme-high quality and help her if she chooses to maintain the toddler, yet seeing as you're existence is almost a Maury episode, you haven't any longer any reason to accomplish that. no count if it is your toddler, (and you detect out after a paternity try is finished), then be to blame. enhance the youngster, and attempt to document for custody, so which you will stay away from her. It would not sound like she'd be an extremely stable parent, imo, and this baby merits greater useful. you apart from mght deserve greater useful. end the romantic relationship.

2016-10-01 01:30:09 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

hey man if u really wanna make it work out confront her about everything n tell her how u feel n then if that dont work then tell her u need a break u n her break p just being friends for atlest 3 weeks n then go back to her date other ppl n if u 2 love eachother that much then u 2 will get back tgether 1 thing i noticed me n my gurl broke up for 3 wees n i was seein other gurls n even when they kissed me....i didint feel itn they felt like they were bad kissers n **** like that so basicly what im saying is try seeing other ppl n if it dont work out then u n her will get back together just remember man the world is a big place n u can fing alot of wemon out there good luck man

2006-08-29 08:44:06 · answer #9 · answered by wicked k 1 · 0 0

Honey you're 17 years old. You have so much time ahead of you. You don't need to commit yourself. I am not saying go fool around with every one you can, I am saying test the waters there are so many girls out there committing yourself now you will eventually get bored and stray again or she will. If you guys break-up and eventually get back together great, if not than it was not ment to be. Live your life in the now cause you'll doubt everything she says & does now and later. 17 is too young to commit go out and have fun. You are only young once so use the time wisely.

2006-08-29 08:40:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You see? That's the thing about dishonesty. Once you deceive someone, they have a hard time trusting you again (and vice versa). This is the reason so many people break up over such a thing. They always have that thing in the back of their mind and it's difficult to live like that, as you are finding out. You're young. I think you shoudl break. When you are ready to settle down, don't blow it again.

2006-08-29 08:41:18 · answer #11 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0 0

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