I was wanting some real life experiences to be posted. My longtime GF (7 years) and I need some sexual counseling (she has no desire anymore, the 1st 5 years were great, we have talked and talked and we decided on counseling) stories/results. I have talked to older men (we're only 23) and they tell me to run while I can b/c desire doesn't change, meaning we can go for counseling but it will never change the desire factor. I don't want to get married and have kids and then get stuck with no sex for the rest of my life, does counseling work? I hope this doesn't sound selfish, I love her and have been completely faithful even though we haven't had sex in two years. I'm just trying to make a life decision. I would prefer female advice/experience, most older guys have told me to leave before marriage and kids, while I still have a chance. I wanted to hear the woman's perspective. Thanks...
2006-08-29 08:17:03 · 4 answers · asked by rwallace13 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah, we've also only been with each other.
2006-08-29 09:01:11 · update #1
First what will it hurt if you give it a try. I say try everything you can to salvage your relationship. Yes it can help. maybe you will understand some issues she has and why she does not want to have sex. She might want to see a regular doctor to see if she has other problems. There might be medical problems making her have a low sex drive. Work on it. If you love her you can work things out. Some people just think its easier to walk away. If things don't work out then you can always leave LATER. Stress can play a big factor in sex to. Remember loving someone in good times and bad is what LOVE is all about.
Good Luck.
2006-08-29 09:01:09 · answer #1 · answered by smile4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You started dating at 16! I'm also assuming you have only been with each other ( big assumption). It sounds like you both need a change to test the waters. Suggest a 6 month break and go date. maybe absence will make the heart more passionate. If you are having trouble with desire at 23 it probably will not get any better.
2006-08-29 08:52:35 · answer #2 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 03:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know with age comes WISDOM better listen to those older guys.
2006-08-29 08:46:13 · answer #4 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋