there is no way on gods green earth he will ever give me his password , does anyone know how i could get into his email account , Although i dont think he is having an affair i think he sends and recieves alot of dodgy emails from girls he has met on the net , id really like to find out , they must be some way .
2006-08-29 08:09:34 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Computers & Internet ➔ Internet
Hi Sam, it's me!!!!!
We need to talk!
I'll be down the pub (with my laptop!)
2006-08-29 08:15:20 · answer #1 · answered by Mitan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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...and then, if you find out he is, what next?
An ugly confrontation? Accustations? Tears? Coming off r e a l l y needy?
Not the way to go girl.
You've got all the advantages over any other "temptations" he has right now. AND you have to face that there will ALWAYS be temptations in his life.
So what do you do, forever and forever be suspicious, and check behind him, developing anxiety that will change what you hoped to have with him?
HELL NO!
Get a grip. Always assume that some other woman wants your man, and act accordingly. That is the reality (not dreams of his total loyality and uncompromised trust).
What am I talking about? Make your demeanor so fun and attractive that he won't be tempted by Wonder Woman herself. Be his best-friend. NOT his needy albatros. Act like you don't care if he is stupid enough to look elsewhere...just BE so cool and so sure of yourself (without coming off conceited) that he will always remain totally attracted to you.
Men LOOK at other women, and they ask themselves if that hot looking chick is "DOABLE". But they don't stray to another pasture, if the milk is sweet at home.
So will you continue to feel suspicion and jealousy...Ya, likely, but you should handle it differently...pour on the good stuff that your man likes, and then also let him be aware that you are independent, fun, and a fine woman that any other man would snap up in a heart beat.
You DO NOT have to be hot looking to pull this off.
I do it everyday, and I'm over 50 ha ha ha ha ha
He's with you. Just make being with you terrific...and what ever temptations that come to him, or he might tease around with...will only be a fantasy for hm...not something he would actively persue.
If you do this right, you will never have to check up behind him again. You won't need to.
stw
2006-08-29 08:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have trust issues with him. You shouldn't hack into his emails because even if he hasn't done anything wrong and he finds out, he will be very angry. If there is no trust in the relationship then there is no relationship. Maybe this is your intuition trying to tell you that something fishy is going on but why don't you just move on instead of hurting yourself if it is true. I know my husband's password but I don't check his email because it is his. And I wouldn't want him checking mine. So it goes both ways. Good luck though. Do what you feel is right.
2006-08-29 08:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's morally wrong but if you are intent on trying to do it simply to find out if he's been cheating, then you need to think about what you'd do if you did find out he was cheating. He must be showing signs already of cheating anyway if you suspect him, and if he has been cheating then he deserves what he gets, If it were me, I'd want the proof then I'd dump him, afterall innocent until proven guilty! One way to do it, is to email him with a fake email address pretending to be someone else and try to start up a dialogue with him and see if he replies to your flirty emails. If he doesnt reply to your fake emails then you should hold your head in shame for not believing him and truly he deserves better!
2006-08-29 09:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by Princess415 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either be straight with him, and say are you talking to other girls, why do you need to hind then, the email that he gets , say I want to see ,
be STRAIGHT WITH HIM,
or just look through his diary any where he must have it somewhere written, or oneday behave your not looking and check quietly what he types, but one thing remember , never let him catch you going through his things, he will never trust you, always show him you are a trust worthy person, otherwise, so what if he doesnt tell, I'm not saying its goos, but you dont want him to think you not the person to trust there for discontinue the realationship you have together, be very careful, take your time, im sure you can find out some how
2006-08-29 08:20:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how close you are to him. If you are living with him & he refuses to give you the password then draw your own conclusions as to why...no need to hack his email account.
If you are just going out with him then he is entitled to his privacy & his refusal may just mean that he thinks you are not close enough yet to know certain personal things which you may learn from his emails.
2006-08-29 08:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by joe b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ski mask, blow torch, pliers, old black transit van and one of them voice changing things and he'll soon spill the beans.
then again does he have YOUR password or are you just being "noid"?
try this... you know almost everything about him yeah? mothers maiden name, favourite person in history, date of birth, pet names... know your enemy yeah? forgotten password? get it yet? you get the security questions right on his email account and you can change the password to anything you want while gaining access to his account and then when he goes to check his email and can't get access he will have to enter security details not knowing what's going on...
get the picture? it's like picking a lock when you're sleeping with the key. damn girl get ninja on the case!!!
use your head.
2006-08-29 08:26:14 · answer #7 · answered by KU 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all u can download keylogger and install it on his pc/laptop.Than u can get his pass.
But beware u must use the registerd version otherwise he may find out about keylogger.
And than the result would be....:-(
2006-08-29 08:16:23 · answer #8 · answered by Tofael AD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, there is something called Ghostwriter that will show everything he has looked at or typed. No idea how it works or if you would need to install it on his pc - in which case he'd probably find out.
2006-08-29 08:16:41 · answer #9 · answered by bambam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't trust him and respect his privacy more then that, then you don't deserve him and your gonna lose him eventually anyway. Guys have a right to their privacy and they have a right to live life. If he is not cheating on you then you are being NOT so smart about this. If he is cheating on you then leave him and be done with it.......... but you are talking about invading his personal space and I am sorry, but that is not good. Blessed be.....
2006-08-29 08:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you think he receives dodgy emails have you seen any or confronted him about it? try and talk first before thinking about reading his mail
I agree with Dr H I have my fella's password but dont use it
2006-08-29 08:24:05 · answer #11 · answered by lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋