My husband and I have thought about buying another set of Wedding rings for the both of us, we have lost the set like two times already, or I should say, I have lost mind.I know that what matters is our happiness and no materials stuff will keep us together.We were seperated for almost one year, and we got back together,my husband plans on getting me the rings for our anniversary, which would be on September the 4th,which is another question,should I say seven years or six when asked?because we were seperated for almost that one year in between.So, my questions are, would it be ok if we where the rings when we get them,because I do plan to get married by the church someday,but do not know when,but we are already married civilly.Also, would I count that almost one year missed or not when saying how many yrs we've been married?Please,no smart answers.
2006-08-29 07:49:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What I said about getting married by the church is only because I have thought that it would be nice for us to start wearing our new rings for that time, but, I do not know how long that will be from now.We have two boys together too.The wedding rings are going to be a gift from my husband to the both of us for our anniversary, which will be soon.
2006-08-29 07:50:34 · update #1
Wear the rings when you get them with our best wishes!
2006-08-29 08:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on and wear the rings. You are married, afterall.
And you should say 7. Just because you were separated for a year does not mean you were divorced.
Don't over complicate it. When someone asks how long you've been married, just tell them 7 years.
Then, if and when, you have a church wedding, he can get you a new anniversary band to wear with your other rings... :)
2006-08-29 07:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by Jessie P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are having our 31 anniversary this year and are celebrating at least ten years of happy marriage ( joke). The point is that it is not all sweetness and light in a longer relationship. Although you were separated you were still married. There is no reason to qualify that you weren't living together. What if he were in Iraq?
You are married . Wear your rings if you like. Its not about the jewelry. I always thought that we should reaffirm our vows at the drive up Elvis wedding chapel in Las Vegas with our sons in the back seat.
2006-08-29 08:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been married seven years. Renew your vows and you can have a minster do it. See if one is free on Sept 4th. You don't need anyone else there except you, your husband and a minster. Friends if you want but the point is renewing you vows together.
Have a great anniversary and many more
2006-08-29 08:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well material things shouldn't be that big of a deal but it is something special the two of you can share and you should say 7 years because that one year of you two being separated was also part of your relationship even though it was a rocky area it means something
2006-08-29 08:00:41 · answer #5 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋