I was staying the night at a "friend" of mine's house, and her uncle was visiting. Earlier that day, her dad, her mom, my friend, and I went to the store and her dad said if someone ever did something to me, I could go to him and he would kick the crap out of who did it. Later on, we got back to their house and I was all freaked out by the notion of someone "doing" something to me, and her dad was telling the people that were at their house about why I was all weirded out. (I was about 9) I fell asleep on the couch and there was a little pull out bed next to me and her uncle was sleeping on it. Then, the next thing I remember, he was kneeling down next to me and touching my hair and saying how "beautiful" he thought I was and he kaept rambling on about what he thought about me and all that bullcrap. Then he started touching me in uncomfortable places, and I kept kcicking him and slapping him and trying to push him away. But...the thing is..It seemed like a dream but it was so real...
2006-08-29 07:42:47 · 15 answers · asked by Jackie O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I kept yelling for help, but no one would come. He ran to answer the phone and I hid underneath the pullout bed and waited for my mom to come pick me up. I have never told anyone except for my cousin...who in my opinion didn't seem to really believe me. This happened almost five years ago...What is this called?
2006-08-29 07:45:48 · update #1
the only reason it felt like a dream was because nobody would respond to me.
2006-08-29 07:51:08 · update #2
i would talk to your parents hun and see what they think honestly because if this wasn't a dream then that sorry son of a ***** is problem doing this to someone else!! But if he got up and answered the phone and you got up and hid then more then likly it was real maybe you thought you were yelling but in reality you weren't!
2006-08-29 08:29:14 · answer #1 · answered by lori b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone has already covered this. Good lord! For starters.
This person certainly needs to be out of the public. I can't say on here what i'd like ta do to this uncle...because i dont wanna give ideas. But torture methods do come ta mind. But i'm slightly more vengeful then most.
What i think that you need to do is open up to someone your close to first, someone that you trust. Your mom or dad?
From then on it will give you someone to lean on. Theres certainly nothing to be ashamed of. What happened wasn't your fault. But this kind of assult..and i call it that cause thats what it is love. Is sometimes unavoidable. And can cause a whole lotta anger.
First you need to determine if it was a dream or if you were making yourself think that it was.
Sometimes i have dreams that are very vivid and real too... But you have to be able to tell the difference. Because this will affect somebodys life. So before you turn him in be sure.
Hope this helps some.
There are also consuling centers for survivers of abuse.
2006-08-29 08:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by warm_champaign 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I cannot tell you for sure if it was a dream or not. You say you were freaked out by someone bringing it up in the first place, so it very well could have been a fear brought over into the dream land.
If this is something that still bothers you, (which it must, you are talking about it now,) then you need to talk to someone who is not on yahoo answers... these people can be so creul and insensitive.
Anyhow, I hope this helps you, and good luck to you!
2006-08-29 07:48:46 · answer #3 · answered by Cutelilminxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you now? If you were really kicking and slapping him on the couch I would think that your hands and feet would hurt afterward. Did they? You were on the couch and no one heard anything? Where was everyone else? How did it finally end? Unfortunately my daughter had a similar situation, and it was very real. Did you tell your parents? You should probably talk to a counselor about it and maybe they can help you sort out what's really real.
2006-08-29 08:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by babyred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie it is called molestation and you need to go to authorities and report it, tell you parents and get them to call you "friends dad" and talk to him about this uncle ... Someone had to know something about this uncle for the dad to tell you something like that and then that night something happened to you!!! I am sorry this happened to you... Take care!
2006-08-29 07:52:47 · answer #5 · answered by JACKIE M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is sick!! You should tell an adult you really trust and that will believe you!! Or go to a psyhologist so you can figure out if it was a dream or if it was real! He's a pedophile! He should be in jail or something!! Please tell some one!!!
2006-08-29 07:48:57 · answer #6 · answered by Dan =] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE TELL SOMEONE!
Who ever did this to you shouldn't be walking around being able to hurt anyother little kids, talk to an adult you trust, why don't you tell your friends dad, which told you you can tel him anything, tell your parents, tell someone, they will help you get through this. Talk to someone that creep needs to be put away in Jail!
2006-08-29 07:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by hotphychochick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not let it drag out assault it bothered you so there is some thing wrong do not hide it tell some or he is going to do it to some else if he has not already done it already, speak up.
2006-08-29 07:51:57 · answer #8 · answered by lucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's just really sad and sick.....I would definitly confront the person with an adult around to watch the situation!
2006-08-29 07:47:30 · answer #9 · answered by Claudia V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why were you allowed to sleep in a place with strange men? your mother needs to be slapped.
2006-08-29 07:47:16 · answer #10 · answered by adrixia 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋