I know he lied but he still insist he didn't.
2006-08-29 07:34:58 · 46 answers · asked by Lost Angel 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell him you know the truth and then see what he has to say for himself. It actually depends on what he is lying about. If it's something small - then it shouldn't be over - we all tell little lies here and there. If he was with another woman and you saw him and he's lying about that. Then yeah, kick his *** to the curb.
2006-08-29 07:38:46 · answer #1 · answered by Neenah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you 1000000% sure he lied? If you are, theres obviously a trust and honesty issue here. Talk about it before you do anything drastic. Ask him why he's not telling you the truth. Show/tell him your evidence. See what he says. If he still won't admit it and apologise, maybe it should be over, because the most important thing in a relationship is trust, and this will greatly damage your trust in him.
On the other hand, if you just think he lied but are not actually completely sure, tell him your doubts in his version of the truth and let him explain himself. If you don't believe him, fine, do what I said above, but you could try giving him the benefit of the doubt.
Good luck, and I hope everything turns out OK for you. xx
2006-08-29 07:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he lied now and you let him get away with it, you are giving him the impression that he can say and do whatever he wants and you won't leave him. He is controlling the situation and you are letting him. Think of all the things he could have lied about that you don't even know about... He could be hiding even more because you won't test his arrogance.
Set your standards higher. You deserve someone honest and faithful. Stand up for yourself. Show him that you are not an idiot and you are not to be lied to. Trust me, there are tons of guys out there who would love to be with someone like you - and they'll treat you the way you should be treated.
Just wait until you find out he cheated on you - what's he going to do? He'll deny it because he knows you'll believe him. You're only going to get hurt in the long run. Show him you aren't a push over and ditch the lier!!!
2006-08-29 07:46:53 · answer #3 · answered by microgrl_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're sure he's lied, break it off. That's a total deal breaker for a successful relationship of any sort. He's just going to have to keep lying to cover up the original lie. It's deceitful, deceptive, and unfair to you. Ask yourself this: Do I lie to him? If the answer is no, then that's the same response you should have when thinking of staying with him. Good luck! Been there, done that. First time, shame on him. Second time, shame on you. Don't stick around to find out.
2006-08-29 07:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are sure that he lied then he doesn't admit to it, it shoiuld be over for the fact that a relationship is built on trust and honesty and if he is not being honest with you, why should you have to stand there and let him lie straight to your face? You also need to figure out if he is worth losing or whether or not you could trust him for whatever he is lying about. Best of Luck. I can tell you from personal experiences that when my boyfriend lied to me, I told him to fess up or its over and I was serious because I was not going to be with someone who is a liar.
2006-08-29 07:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by Babygurl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know he lied then outline HOW you know he lied so that he can't worm his way out of it anymore. If he continues to lie on top of that, you should tell him it's over.
Someone who continues to lie like that has a reason. He could be ashamed to let you know the truth or could just be a pathological liar who doesn't think he's going to get caught. There are many reasons, but there's no reason for you to continue to put up with it.
2006-08-29 07:38:53 · answer #6 · answered by Colleen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it should be over, because if he insist on lying to you when he know he is caught, I'm sure he lies to you all the time. Get a real man , If you let him get away with this once he will think he can any time.
2006-08-29 07:42:54 · answer #7 · answered by Real Talk! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well guys are like that, although that is not tolerable. But still this cant be a reason to end up. May be ur relation is growing and it takes time to reach to a level when u stop hiding things. So, give time to ur relation to build up instead of ending up and starting from scratch. Atleast there must be n number of things that u liked abt this person which u may not find in others. So, stay happy and have patience. But do discuss these issues even there is a fight that is ok. Relationship demands all this. Take care.
2006-08-29 07:39:26 · answer #8 · answered by ariesaregudfriends 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No matter how much you love a person, if you cannot have trust you have nothing. A person who lies to you does not respect or love you enough to tell you the truth, then he is not worthy of your love.
Having said that, is there any chance you are mistaken and he hasn't lied? What is your source or proof? If there is ANY possibility that he is not lying, you owe it to both of you to trust him this time. If history repeats itself, then you are better off without him.
2006-08-29 07:46:28 · answer #9 · answered by Tracey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say it depends on what he lied about if he lied about something serious then I would have to end this relationship but you gotta know you can never fully trust anyone
2006-08-29 07:38:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋