I saw my wife's best friends nude by Accident. WHy does it bother my wife so much that it happend. Sometimes i see her just sitting there thinking about it and it doesn make any sences to me because it was a complete Accident. Is it because i wasn't the one that told her it happened...how would u feel
2006-08-29 07:29:33 · 17 answers · asked by righteous 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well maybe she just feels like you didn't tell her because u liked what you saw and it scares her that she thinks you may feel that way
2006-08-29 07:31:34 · answer #1 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your wife must be either insecure about your marriage or her own body. The fact that you didn't tell her that it happened probably leads her to believe that you are guilty of "enjoying the scenery". Now your wife thinks you secretly have a "thing" for her best friend. This is a though issue because woman have a huge issue with insecurities especially when it comes to our bodies. I understand this was not your fault....so you say.....but be kind, and reassure your wife of her beauty in your eyes. She will get over it...but it will take some time. Good-luck!
2006-08-29 14:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by fly away 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife has her share of insecurities, doesn't she? Accidents happen every day...big deal! One woman's body doesn't really look that different than another's. I think I would laugh if it happened to me (and it has to me and everyone else...big deal). I would think it would be the "best friend's" place to be embarrassed, not your wife's. She needs to get a grip, laugh and go on with life. Sorry to say this, but it sounds as if you have much deeper problems than this...better get to the bottom of it fast. Good luck
2006-08-29 14:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it would all depend on how you seen her naked. If you knew she was getting undressed in a bedroom and you walked in yes I would be very upset. If you walked in and you thought she was gone and whoops there it was ,well it was an accident I would not be upset. Your wife sound insecure and afraid it might have turned you on. Tell her how embarrassing it was to you to walk into something that you were not expecting.
2006-08-29 14:37:34 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar incident with my wife's sister.She was staying with us while in town and I caught her after a shower putting on lotion in our room.I told my wife that night and she does nothing but harass her sister about it.I think since it was an accident,who cares.The true question is did she look good?
2006-08-29 14:52:29 · answer #5 · answered by Tom S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU should have told her what happened. You should have also pretended to be extremely disturbed by the whole situation, like you saw something you NEVER wanted to see, and you NEVER want to see it again. Her anger level would be significantly lower if you would have done that. Now you know for the next time you accidentally see her friends naked ;)
2006-08-29 16:26:08 · answer #6 · answered by Vampira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's worried you enjoyed the sight!! LOL..
I think it's great. typical response. So did her friend bust you staring?.. I'd not make a big deal of it. That's just being a guy.. She's bothered because she now sees her friend as a bit of competition. Perhaps she needs to stand naked in front of you and do a dance for you to win your eyes back!!
LOL
2006-08-29 14:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was dragged out camping with my wifes family 1 year...I saw her aunt and cousin nude while swimming...great bods, but no hard feelings on anyones side!
2006-08-29 14:33:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That the whole thing is completly stupid...Does your wife and the friend or sister have two eyes, two arms, two legs and two boobs. She acts like there is something there that she doesn't have...She has low self estem and is thinking less of herself..has nothing to do with what you witnessed.
Her problem..not yours.
Tell her to get over it...or....get a friend of yours and let her see him. Even steven!!!
2006-08-29 14:33:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being hung up on nudity is, most likely, a sign of problems in other areas.
Read lots of psychology books - and turn it around.
When she gives you the "look"... and you know that she is thinking about the situation, try an "Hmmmm... ? tell me more about your mother"...
Careful what you wish for, because once she starts feeling comfortable telling you about her problems.. you are in for it.
2006-08-29 14:37:46 · answer #10 · answered by Badspe11er 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't bother me. Sounds like your wife has insecurity/trust issues.
2006-08-29 14:36:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋