We have two kids, 7 and 10. been married over ten years. were once madly in love. things just fizzled out, completely out. We we don't fight we just don't talk anymore, don't share a bed anymore, and he no longer acknowledges me anymore. I feel like I am living my life with a stranger. Could it ever go back to the way it was? Dazed and confused.
2006-08-29 07:16:39 · 12 answers · asked by waterfunners 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well do you keep the Lord in your marriage??? And if neither one of you are willing to fight for eachother then its pretty much over. Have you tried finding a baby sitter for the kids and just making a nice night with your husband and try telling him how you feel and see what happens? Look towards the Lord for help.
2006-08-29 07:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by Piper 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it's over. It sounds like you are having a really rough time right now though. How come you don't sleep together anymore? That's something you should start doing asap. It also sounds like your marriage has gotten to be more routine than anything else. Shake it up girl! Meet him at the door naked if you have too! You have to work at this to make it better. (and he does too) You are not going to wake up tomorrow and have everything fixed if you don't work! Have you both sat down and talked about this? I would suggest that as a good place to start. The take what each other says to heart. Good Luck and God Bless.
2006-08-29 07:26:05 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is far from over. Over implicates that you've tried everything short of standing on your head. One night, sneak back into his bed and see what happens. Then another day try making dinner where everyone eats together at the table. It's the little things that hold a marriage together and when two people forget to do them and get stuck in a rut, they often end up going in their own direction. Find your way back to him honey and he'll recripricate. Chances are, he's asking himself the questions right now.
2006-08-29 07:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the kids or 7 and 10 that put you around 30. you got plenty of goods romps left, if your husband don't want to, just get a boyfriend. then you will know if your marriage is over. You might be dazed but not confused.
2006-08-29 07:25:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Female 26 yrs old been married 7 yrs have 2 boys together and a daughter from previous relationship Miserable for about 3 yrs now First Marriage
2016-03-27 00:17:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to take you fishin'. If the fish aren't bitin', ask him if he wants to have sex. If he says no, then it's over. If he falls out of the boat in shock with a big smile on his face, then you have nothing to worry about. You just need to spice things up a bit! Good luck!!!
2006-08-29 07:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by Red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of marriage counseling! That is your only hope. You had better talk to your husband and be sure that is what both of you want. It is going to take much effort and communication. Good luck, sincerely.
2006-08-29 07:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by babyred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you've both stopped trying long ago; if he's not willing to see a counselor with you, ask him if he would be happier on his own and see if he'll either agree or snap out of the funk.
2006-08-29 07:21:55 · answer #8 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its over when you say its over. Do you want to work it out with him? do you still love him? Do you want that spark back with him? Its over when you feel you dont want that anymore with him and you want out...if you still feel there is hope go to a marriage and family therapist and try to work it out with him!!
2006-08-29 07:28:10 · answer #9 · answered by magickitty0621 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both of you are still willing you need to work this out. Go to counseling.
2006-08-29 07:22:36 · answer #10 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋