Do you think it is a good reason to break up and staying at other's friend's house is acceptable?

Question

Me and my boyfriend are 14. We have been together for over 16 mos. Recently, he spent long10 hrs at other girl friend's house. This girl friend used to be my friend, but because she's flirting with my BF, I stopped hanging out with her. But my boyfriend is her friend. My BF thinks that there is no reason for me to be mad at him because he spent the long hrs at other friend's house. But to me, it is not acceptable not matter what reason it may be. I really got so pissed of at him. He said sorry to me but everytime I think about it, it breaks my heart. Do you think it's a good reason to break up? Should I forgive him?

Answer 1

nope dont' forgive him.. ur to young to be going through drama at ur age.. not only that their r other boys out there and other friends to meet that will respect the boundaries of friendship (like hands off boyfriends and exboyfriends)...

if he with u he shouldn't be chilling with no other girls unless ur their chilling to.. let him know that he' is being disrespectful especially since ur a couple and because that was ur best friend and she be disrespecting u by hitting on him.. it's hurts ur feelings and he doesn't care..

then drop him like a bad habit....

Answer 2

I think that you are jealous and immature and also 14 YEARS OLD!!! So basically..... you have no business with a boyfriend OMG You need to brush up on your studies so you can get a good college education and then a career so you can find the man of your dreams or at least be successful and mature and have fun in life. And I am sure you Will realize that you do not breakup a friendship over a boy....SERIOUSLY what's up with you?

Answer 3

you cannot tell people who they can or cannot be friends with...and not all friends have to be "same sex"...however i agree 14 is way too young for all this drama...concentrate on school you have plenty of time for boys after