Because I fell in love with someone who's married and a decade my senior!
2006-08-29 06:59:52 · 21 answers · asked by meta_chronic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Uh Yes That Is Def Wrong
2006-08-29 07:01:31 · answer #1 · answered by A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is right & what is wrong? It depends on your values, your conscience. Do you feel at ease being the one who might be destroying another's marriage / causing the breaking up of a family?
To be able to find someone to love is wonderful, but could you face your conscience when it's at the expense of someone else's happiness? Simply put, could you face yourself?
How would you feel if you are in the other person's (the wife) shoes?
You gotta weigh all these questions. If at the end of it you still feel that the love is worth all the emotional investment, then go ahead.
2006-08-29 07:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
On a level of morals, yea it is wrong. But you are only cheating yourself here. Because do you really think the man is going to leave his wife? I mean many a married guy says they are getting a divorce or getting seperated. Pretty say anything to get you to give them the sex they want. But I think you should get out now before he drops you when you confess you love him. Some guys can't handle that if they are already cheating. They just want the sex not the ties.
2006-08-29 07:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not @ all, Not @ all. it's not at all wrong, there's nothing wrong to fall in love with anyone, married, or of any age, as it's no co-relation at all, but only if & provided, it's love only, pure love, true, exclusive, genuine, without any expectations, by heart & soul, Not physical, wide open, not closed one, respectable by everyone & such many more quality love, like love bet.mother & kids, innocent one. This's & this's the time 4 all to love & B loved. My friend. Makes sense. B my friend. All the best.
2006-08-29 07:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by JD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong to fall in love with a married person,especially if you knew front the beginning they were marry.You can believe in love but let it not be someone that marry.People can get hurt and you can step in something that you wish you hadn't started.Like they say you reap what you sow.So if you go for that marry person remember it can happen to you.There someone out there for you and they not marry.I don't believe in luck but I'm sending my blessing on the right person that is your soul mate.
2006-08-29 07:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by 40something 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong to fall in love. It is wrong to pursue the relationship further when the person is already claimed. Why would you want someone who is taken anyway? You know how the record plays: he will never leave his wife for you and you end up alone anyway, while he remains with his family, a nice home to retire to. Channel those love feelings for someone who is for You. Only You.
2006-08-29 07:04:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's wrong. It's committing adultery. If both of you are equally in love maybe the one that is married should divorce? (Divorce is wrong too.) I am a Christian that's why I say these things. If I was married and it was terrible, I would rather divorce and then continue with the one I knew I was in love with. Don't continue in sin by cheating! Are there kids involved? If so, they could be hurt! Pray about all of it!
2006-08-29 07:08:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well falling in love with a married problem may be what u want right now but it can hurt u. because the person might not want to end things with their spouse and u will be left alone. my friend got pregnant from a married man and she raised the baby alone and then she got pregnant again by another married man and now she is raising two kids alone
2006-08-29 07:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by RocKsTaR 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shivi costly, i'm able to comprehend the soreness you're dealing with. i've got self belief sorry for you, yet you will ought to make up your suggestions and take the alternative your self. i think of you're no longer from US yet yet another u . s . like me. you will probable no longer get lots of favorable replies in this talk board because of the fact in our u . s . nevertheless the assumption of relationship and marriage and additionally the traditions are diverse from that for the duration of US. right here a guy and a woman stay mutually for finished existence as husband and spouse whether the affection is lacking between them. issues are changing whether it is going to take an prolonged time and additionally significant economic progression / social popularity earlier we value genuine love because of the fact the best requirement for any durable relationship. each and every guy or woman longs for romance. i in my opinion think of that, pondering the social attitude of our u . s ., there isn't any longer something incorrect so you might love a married guy or woman, presented you do no longer harm every physique. in case you 2 fairly love one yet another, i might say you ought to communicate this alongside with your love and are available to a decision. stable luck.
2016-10-01 01:25:04 · answer #9 · answered by hamb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong to fall in love but you can't act on it. This man has a family and you don't want to be the one that ruined that. Also if he was willing to leave a wife for you then he would be willing to leave you for the next girl that comes around.
2006-08-29 07:15:29 · answer #10 · answered by queenbee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋