I have been sick and was not up to sex with my husband so I called his girlfrind and had her come over and take care of it for me. They were downstairs and I was upstairs watching TV. I see nothing wrong with it. I know and like his girlfriend. Why do other people have problems with it?
2006-08-29 06:49:28 · 47 answers · asked by sexyladyinak 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok, more info..... We are mature....Over 40 and I do have a boyfriend also. We have a open marriage. No he didn't know that I was calling her to come over. I was doing this for him.
2006-08-29 07:38:33 · update #1
i see no problem with it. i think people put to much morality on sex
2006-08-29 06:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by gary_george48 2 · 3⤊ 4⤋
Sorry, but I can't agree.
When my wife is sick, and I can't make love to her, then I just wait. Either that, or I take matters into my own "hands". I'm not that concerned about sex that I have to go and get it from someone else. The distressing part to most (myself included) is that you are aware that your husband has another woman, and you are okay with him sleeping with her with your consent, in your house, with you in the same house. If I were to bring that up to my wife, I'd be divorced by the end of the week.
Of course, that's just me.
2006-08-29 07:19:30 · answer #2 · answered by Joseph_Keith 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you see nothing with this then its o.k. Its your life as long as your not breaking any laws and all parties involved agree. Life is too short. I just hope in the end your happy, the second feelings are hurt is when this arrangement will be over. Don't worry what other people think, they don't may your mortgage or water bill.
2006-08-29 06:56:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You shouldn't worry about other people if you don't have a problem with it. I say live your life how you like it but there is no need to publicize it or worry about it. Just one tip.....if you have kids be very careful....this is not something that children should know. Good luck ;-)
2006-08-29 07:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by Miss J 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I suppose as long as your OK with it then what you do in your own house is your business, but you know that you can catch STD's even with the use of condoms, and how would you feel if she got pregnant??? I also hope that if you have kids they are not exposed to that kind of behavior. Good Luck
2006-08-29 06:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by cslynn1980 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I agree with Brown Eyed Girl, if you are okay with it, there are no issues. I believe three of you are mature enough to know what you are doing.
"There is no right or wrong, only thinking makes it so."
2006-08-29 07:01:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he has a g/f and you know about her what is the point in being married? He obviously doesn't think much of you if he has a girlfriend.
No offense, but you need to grow up!
2006-08-29 07:03:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What? He has a wife and a girlfriend and they know about each other? Let me guess, you don't have kids?
2006-08-29 06:51:41 · answer #8 · answered by hawksfan17 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I see nothing wrong with an open marriage, as long as he'd do the same for you in this situation.
2006-08-29 06:55:30 · answer #9 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Many lose track of the fact it is to be a sacred union.
If that is all the value you put on something so sacred maybe you deserve each other.
2006-08-29 06:54:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Because most women don't want to share their man. No one wants sloppy seconds.
2006-08-29 07:26:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋