I am originally from England, I moved to the US this summer. I am starting college tomorrow (I'm starting later in life- I'm 23, so I will be older than the freshmen). I am worried about the differences between England and the States, could you give me some advice on how to make friends and keep up with my studies?
2006-08-29 06:48:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Higher Education (University +)
One of the main differences between England and America is that there is more student discussion in classes. Get into that habit of mind and contribute when you can. The other is that students are more continuously assessed in America than in England. Every course may require you to take a mid-term exam and a final exam and write one or more term-papers. You pretty much need to stay on top of your work much of the time. Given the fact that you are from England I would learn and watch for a while before getting into relationships. Bernard Shaw once said that America and England are two countries separated by a common language. The English tend to be understated, indirect, ironic, Americans rather less so. The English are a bit more formal than their cousins. I think that after a few weeks you will do fine. Best wishes. I have lived for more than 20 years in each country.
2006-08-29 07:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by tirumalai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many of the freshman will be younger than you (18-19), but don't let that intimidate you. There will most likely be several other foreign students in your classes so don't worry about that too much.
To make friends, just talk to people. Ask them if they bought the books, talk about your impressions of the professor, sit down next to random people during lunch time, ask questions, etc. You could also try to form a study group in some of your harder classes. Once you get the hang of your schedule, join a club or organization. Most colleges have hundreds of them. This will help you meet tons of people.
Make sure you put your studies first. Take some time each day to study and do homework.
Good luck and have fun!
2006-08-30 09:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by smm_8514 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As for making friends, just be yourself. Most freshman will have moved away from their home towns, so they will be in a similar situation as you. They won't know anybody and they will be just as nervous, so I wouldn't worry about it. Plus a lot of Americans will be interested in your life simply because your from England.
As for the school side, the number one rule is go to class. I'm not going to say make every single class but make sure you know what the professor's attencdence policy is and abide by it. The material isn't going to be that much harder than high school but the work load will be (ie more reading and papers). Its easy to get behind on the reading but if you go to class most professors will review the material you were to have read so you can catch up really quickly. Attendence becomes increasingly important in the upper level classes because as you continue your education the classes will get smaller and the professor will get to know you personally.
2006-08-29 14:19:50 · answer #3 · answered by Vehlt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work to form or join a study group for each class. These groups help you balance friendships and study by doing both.
Avoid the Keg houses and Greek parties. People who get into that scene tend to flunk out at a higher rate.
2006-08-29 13:54:21 · answer #4 · answered by wallysierk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to class everyday, don't skip. Join an organization or two. Keep up with the readings, review your notes after every class and don't wait until the day before an exam to begin studying (never works) GOOD LUCK, I'm sure you will do fine!!!!
2006-08-29 13:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by rab 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi m.loar
listen do b nerves just get relex when u talk 2 anybody and dont get concouis just fell from inside that ur fresher student in that collage dont apply 2 much make up on ur self just be natural just put some kajal, some light eye shadow,and lots of lip gloss.
and ur ready for ur colage and u look so gourges that no one relise that ur 23 . ok try this
2006-08-29 14:06:35 · answer #6 · answered by neha d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Prioritize and schedule your study time.
2. On you spare time, get involved with some of the social functions at school. You can them a list from your admissions office.
2006-08-29 13:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by p_boxter03 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What i try to do is whenever i have a break, I try to get my work from classes done. You can always go to lunch with friends, or if you are living in a dorm, make friends there.
2006-08-29 13:54:21 · answer #8 · answered by Sara Marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself. everyone loves an the english. college isn't aplace to fool off, take it like regular school, just a little bit more fun. don't get too caught up in parties. the regular.
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2006-08-29 13:57:54 · answer #9 · answered by Dukefrom7th 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do your assignments...you will make friends automatically...they will be in some of your classes and have similar interests...dont worry about it....cuz if you stress too much you will make yourself seem unapproachable...
2006-08-29 14:02:08 · answer #10 · answered by blfittro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋