he was married before. she cheated on him and left him to remarry. he has one son and he thinks about him every day. sometimes it makes him very sad. he has not seen his child in years because the ex is crazy.
what words can i say to make him feel better? how do I help him cope with these issues? he feels like a failure and not very manly because she left him. i want him to know that obviously she wasnt the one.
but how do i help him and his sadness over the child?
2006-08-29 06:46:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
lose weight & swallow.
2006-08-29 06:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by enord 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to get the his child back...if this is bothering him help him get his child back...
Even if the girl is a serious B*I*TcH...tell him to call her and get the son on the phone.
He is not a faliur she is...she cheated on him she could not handle a relationship b-coz she is so insecure she comes after a loser.
Give him a Great hug and kiss him and tell him u love him and u don't want him to be sad coz it gets u sad and u just wish 2 see a smile.
Also tell him that he is a great dad for caring and worrying about his own son ...and u love that about him coz he has such a big heart.
2006-08-29 07:03:22 · answer #2 · answered by *~`h!8@Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is be there for him if you want the ring then you have to show him better than the ex if u love him like that you learn from her mistakes with him and aways reassure him he is 100% man because he is and want to do the right thing by his kid its so many dead beat dads out here and he's the diamond in the rough because he wants to be a dad but in the end the ex will pay for it and if all else fails its time to go to court they have this program for dads like him now you need to get on your job to find this out and make something happen and tell him about it when learn everything about it
2006-08-29 07:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by mocha27girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know that you're there for him whenever he wants to discuss this issue. Let him know he's NOT a failure and that things between him and his ex-wife weren't meant to be. Tell him that he has the right to be a great dad, even if his ex is crazy. Good luck!
2006-08-29 06:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he pats child support,he should have visitation with the child. If the ex is making it hard to the child,he can go though the court and demand visitations.
2006-08-29 06:52:47 · answer #5 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't help him. He has to help himself. Honestly it sounds like he may indulge in pity parties for your attention.
If he really wanted to see his child he would find a way.
Dump him for a real man that realizes his own accountability in life.
I mean give me a break...who's ex is not crazy???
2006-08-29 07:01:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there for him and tell him you love him and show him that she in the past and you are in the future. about his son. get a lawyer and fight for his rights. good luck hope this helps.
2006-08-29 08:12:37 · answer #7 · answered by Melda R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get pregnant and give him another baby
2006-08-29 06:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by j w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋