I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and it started off great. I was so in love and my world revolved around him. Now I just dont feel the same. He will want to have sex and I always find an excuse not to. Or he'll want me to come over and hang out. I still love him and always will because he is the father of my child. But I'm not in love with him. And I find another reason not to. But we are still together, what should I do?
2006-08-29 06:34:24 · 3 answers · asked by agraat23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You will do what you have to do for the sake of the child. That doesn't necessarily mean staying with him. No child deserves to grow up in an unhappy household.
2006-08-29 06:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to keep a spark in a relationship after years of being together. Then you think you can have fun with someone else, you want the lovey feeling, or that someone can do more for you. But the thing is if you truely love him, stay and rekindle your relationship with him. At least try too, it won't hurt anything. Do something to put a spark in your relationship, if it doesn't work then you'll know.
2006-08-29 13:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by Susa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two should really try to sit down and discuss this very important issue.You say you still love him because he is the father of your child,but maybe you two are only trying to stay together because of the child.This at times can be a very big mistake because if you as the parents cannot be happy it reflect and be transferred to your child.All of these things you have to sit down and consider before making a decision on your future,relationship and child.
2006-08-29 13:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by porkupuss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋