if the guy you really liked was married would you still go out with him/he says his wife cheated on him first?

Question

so they are kind of seperated/ by the way this is not for me~~dont throw that popcorn at me ok

Answer 1

This brings into play your morals. I dint know what they are and that subject is your business. I can only tell you my opinion from my stand point. I too dated a married man a very long time ago who was also "separated". I loved him with every fiber of my being. Then one day he came and told me that his wife was pregnant and that they were getting back together. I was beyond being hurt.
If you want a relationship with no strings attached then go for it. Just don't count on any kind of serious thing to happen.
Been there, done that, got the T-shirt and have NEVER done it again.
Best of luck to you.

Answer 2

Kind of separated? They either are separated, or they're not. If they're separated and a divorce is in the works, I don't see anything morally wrong with it. I would just be careful because if the wife finds out, it may cause him to pay more alimony.

The safe thing would be to wait a while and see how things progress with the divorce.

Answer 3

you deserve to have popcorn (and the tin it came in) thrown at your head if you are even thinking about going out with a married man. of course he's going to say that she cheated on him first that she doesn't understand him, she doesn't give him any love/sex, she is a biatch, etc. he will tell you any big lie. it isn't worth it. don't buy into it. if he is married, don't get tangled up in this mess. you are better than that! don't let that dog drag you down to his level. you can do so much better!

Answer 4

I think it depends on what ur looking for, I would not personally choose to get involved with a married person, but if he was really a nice guy and we were able to have an understanding regarding expectations then, it could probobly become a good friendship. But in order not to get hurt, you would have to keep it in your head that he is already taken and not expect more than what he can give.

Answer 5

no tell him to get a divorce first, and even then why would you trust a man that would cheat on his wife regardless of his reasoning. It is wrong!!! Besides he probably knows you like him, will make all the promises in the world to you, while his marriage is probably fine or at least his wife thinks so, and he has no intention of ever leaving her.

Answer 6

You will never have a future with a married man
Regardless of what his wife did, he is not available.
Find a single man who can focus his interests on your relationship and not the troubles he is having at home with his wife
By the way, he is married until the ink is dry on the divorce papers

Answer 7

NO, cause 2 wrongs dont make a right. any woman who sleeps with a married man and knows he married is a whore in my opinion and anyone can lie to get a peice of tail
vice versa on the cheating with men as well
and if they will cheat on their spouse, they will cheat on you too

Answer 8

If he is cheating on his wife then he will cheat on you to. Regaurdless of who cheated first. Stay away from anyone in a relationship of any kind and start somewhere new and more meaningful.

Answer 9

Heck no, who wants someone else's baggage. If he is single then go for it but married men are completely off-hands. Women who go after married men are nothing but trash.

Answer 10

if he wants to date. TELL HIM TO DIVORCE HIS WIFE.
DO U WANNA BE KNOWN AS "tht other woman?"
NO RIGHT.
so don't fall into this trap of emotions n see wht sort of person this person is. He wants to date n keep a wife..n he giives a excuse. Leave him now.