We are both virgins, and we agreed not to have sex for some months, but everytime we are in the apt somehow we start hugging and cuddling, next thing we know we are almost about to have sex. I'm a jock, I've suggested going play basketball, or jogging, baseball, or some other sport, but he's not athletic at all. We only have going out to dinner and the movies. We already agreed to lose one's virginity one to another, but the way things are going, we might not be able to wait th months we had planned.
What can we do to distract ourselves and spend the least amount of time in his apt?
What are some good couple activities?
2006-08-29 06:29:48 · 18 answers · asked by Document Guy 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think that what you guys have is great because your relationships has gone so far. some activites that you guys can do are like taking walks, some sports that you two might enjoy like kayaking, or other things like taking a boat out to the lake and seeing natures beauty. But keep the relationship going, you guys have the story fairytale everyone desires.
2006-08-29 08:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ever considered taking a class together or finding a hobby that you both enjoy(like maybe ceramics)?
How about doing things in Public together like open-air concerts, fairs and festivals or even volunteer work at local animal shelters or HIV Hospices? There are tons of things that you can do together to keep yourselves distracted.
2006-08-29 07:07:20 · answer #2 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummm -- ok ---- not sure why you have decided to do this, but to each their own. If you are in a major city all sorts of things -- museums, free exhibits, etc. You can also attend lectures on topics of interest to both of you -- you can join a gaming group and play board or role-playing games with other people (tell me your city, I can find you a group, my email is below).
You might want to ask why you want to wait though. I'm sure you know, but think it through anyway.
And cuddling and hugging and kissing are normal to any couple -- and yes, truthfully they tend to lead to most people, gay or straight, having sex earlier than they otherwise might -- and you know something, in my opinion, that's ok -- so don't give up those activities either.
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2006-08-29 06:53:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to spend less time in his apartment and more time distracting yourselves. If he isn't athletic, then find out what he does like and do those things. Travel, but stay in separate rooms. Take classes together, like cooking.
2006-08-29 18:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spanking is always a good distraction. In addition, to spend the least amount of time in the apartment, adopt like 10 dogs and rear them in his apartment.
2006-08-29 06:48:15 · answer #5 · answered by CherryBam.com 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Play board games. Takes walks. Try and limit your alone time a little. I know you really want to spend time together, but try making it a more public place like the park. Hope this helps and I commend you for waiting!
2006-08-29 06:33:31 · answer #6 · answered by imtami75 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
At this point, try to get imersed into a good book or some other household projects that will keep your mind only on that project or book.
2006-08-29 06:44:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Start playing online games, watch vcd, hang out ...
Cook together, go for walks if he dont like heavy exercise.
2006-08-29 06:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well how about fixing the problem before you go and see her? Take matters into your own hands....so to speak.
That way when you get there you will not be in the mood to go again for a long time.
Alex
2006-08-29 06:33:53 · answer #9 · answered by Osiris2067 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Chandler from 'Friends'
It helped Phoebe.
2006-08-29 09:30:55 · answer #10 · answered by The Greek Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋