We are together practically everyday besides when I am a work. I work 2 jobs and he picks me up from both. I can't figure out when I would have time to cheat. I'm fed up because I'm being faithful to the fullest extent. For example, we were together last night and everything was fine. I dropped him off at home, and when I called him from my house and told him I made it home safely. He started yelling and cussing me out for nothing. He claims he called my lil sis and she told him I left with another guy. I know my lil sis wouldn't lie on me and the time he called I know for a fact she was asleep. What should I do? He accuses me of stuff I know I don't do.
2006-08-29 06:26:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell him to get over it or you will walk. If you are being faithful then you don't deserve what he is doing to you.
2006-08-29 06:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by theoriginalquestmaker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems that the relationship might be a little bit to center on the intimacy. This type of situation only comes up due to the fact that nether one or even just one of you really doesn't feel comfortable enough with the other to fully say want they need to say. This is usually due to one of you hiding who they really are, not just from the other but themselves. This guys showing a lot of signs of insecurity and you might want to weigh how much you love the chap with how much he is really being your friend. You have to have both for the relationship to really work and this guys acting more like your enemy. Remember love isn't enough for a relationship to truly be fulfilling you need a lot more then that, but its there to help.
2006-08-29 13:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is the one who is guilty here. He has been cheating on you, and out of guilt and insecurities, he is thinking, wanting you to be doing the same. He knows you work, he picks you up etc. Maybe he doesn't want to be with you so he is finding ways to fight with you.
2006-08-29 13:35:06 · answer #3 · answered by Susa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wake the hell up! you can never wake up someone who's already awake! (i mean the semantics, not the syntax!) he's just blaming the crap on you to cover up the mistakes he's doing. he's turning you into some kind of scapegoat for his dirty deeds!
2006-08-29 13:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by meta_chronic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's doing something and the guilt makes him think that you could be doing the same thing. Call his on it....
2006-08-29 13:33:13 · answer #5 · answered by Admiral 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave him. seems he is suffering from some form of self esteem problems. he will sort out himself
2006-08-29 13:34:52 · answer #6 · answered by Think-tank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEAH HE SOUNDS KINDA CRAZY. I ALWAYS TRUST A PERSON TILL THEY GIVE ME A REASON NOT TOO. YOU NEED TO GET OUT OF THAT RELATIONSHIP. ASAP
2006-08-29 13:33:05 · answer #7 · answered by robnbeer21 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you must convince him there is no trust..............WHY are you still with him?????????
2006-08-29 13:32:03 · answer #8 · answered by Love Hurts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋