Im a 26 year old guy and recently i got some weird aweful pains, in my body.. like my neck muslce hurts so much for no reason. i already have a lot of injuries, and that really makes me feel worthless like i'm notthing but a bunch of trash. before this i was used to all the other pains and i was ready to start making friends, but now with this i feel like dying. makes me feel depresed.
2006-08-29 06:22:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Find a support group.I lived in pain for 6 years.I had Endometriosis.People couldn't see what was wrong with me and so the didn't much care or believe me.I finally had surgery and the pain is gone.Throughout that whole time I was suicidal and depressed.Its going to be hard for you.I would try to find out the cause of all this pain.There is always people like you who suffer the same pain.Don't give up.You are not worthless or trash.This experience may make you a person who helps others who suffer the same as you.God don't make trash.
2006-08-29 06:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by kelliekareen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they're true friends they wouldn't care if you have injuries or diseases...no matter what they'll be there for you...the pains your describing can either be just strains, sprains, or could just be the muscles around your neck tensing up from either sleeping in an uncomfortable position or maybe even from the type of bed mattress you have...you should get medical attention from a chiropractor...also maybe go see a psychiatrist for your depression...
2006-08-29 13:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by lilsweetone619 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want "normal" friends don't constantly complain about what hurts. People in your age bracket for the most part can't relate, get really board with it and see you as depressing for them. Even though everyone has something wrong with them, it's not what occupies their mind the way it's occupying yours. Talk about things you love to do or would love to do. Find a common ground. If you can't refrain from bringing up how bad you feel...find a group of people that have painful ailments themselves and you can compare stories. This won't help with the depression though. You need an outlet of something you can do that brings you joy & stellar pain management to cope with that.
2006-08-29 13:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by could_B_N_E_1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everyones got problems. find solutions ! step by step. have patience. things will work. Also see the right people, research things.
2006-08-29 13:49:44 · answer #4 · answered by Tim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn dude I really cant put myself in ur shoes but hope for the best....get treatment if possible......and most of all dont do anything stupid.......if ya need someonr to talk to hit me up......playboyngso@yahoo.com
2006-08-29 13:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by play boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone who has the same thing as you?
I'm sure not everyone detest making friends like you (: don't worry too much, with ur determination, i think u'll win loads of friends. don't fret too much yea?
2006-08-29 13:26:42 · answer #6 · answered by excusememiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont feel that way you should never feel that way bcause life is too long and if you already began too feel thtway then it will be really hard for you too live your life
2006-08-29 13:35:17 · answer #7 · answered by chichi3985s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a doctor and find a good therapist.someone who will help you through this
2006-08-29 13:28:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to a doctor about this?
2006-08-29 13:25:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋