he wants to and i really love him, but i'm nervous and a little scared. what should i do? i mean i want to too. u kno.....
2006-08-29 05:20:03 · 7 answers · asked by I love Edward Elric!! 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
If you have to ask what to do, you are to young to do it. When you know what to do, just do it and everything will be ok. Everyone has to have a first time but you should know the basics first.
2006-08-29 05:26:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety, if u REALLY LOVE HIM, and YOU feel that you are ready, then bye all means do it ( but PLEASE make sure that u use protection!!! this is VERY important, because you could ruin the rest of your life just because you decided "in the moment" to do it without protection)
If you are scared about it being painful, then ask your boyfriend to take it easy, and TELL him that u are abit nervous and scared.
the BEST tool in a relationship is COMMUNICATION!!!
Good luck , and best of all, ENJOY IT!
(i myself am also still a virgin at 21, because i have been waiting for the love of my life) i want my very first time to be SPECIAL, an have MEANING.
Your virginity is a VERY special gift, and the person you choose to give it to should be VERY SPECIAL themselves, because it is a gift that you can only every give ONCE in your life! )
2006-08-29 12:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by Jazz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should learn how to spell words like "what."
After you do that, sit down for a minute and consider your situation.
You are nervous and scared. What does that tell you? Does it suggest that maybe this isn't the right thing for you to be doing right now?
Are you ready to accept the consequences of what you're about to do? Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with this guy?
2006-08-29 12:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by bgii_2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you love him, but are you sure he loves you too or he just wants sex?
when you ask, this means you are not ready and too young for that. don't do it. if he loved you he would never asked you like that. say no and see what he says. if he says ok and respects you and contineus his relationship with you, may be in future when you are ready and want to spend the rest of your life with him other than that, forget it.
2006-08-29 14:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by Natalia A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Him really wanting to does not mean that you should go ahead and do it. If you are scared then you may not be ready for it yet
2006-08-29 12:39:27 · answer #5 · answered by maddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell this guy to go to hell and drop him!
If he "LOVES YOU" (men sicken me when they use that excuse to get in a chix drawers!) he would never pressure you into giving your virginity away! But, hey, free-will...just be prepared for the emotional baggage that comes afterward--most folks never are.
2006-08-29 12:27:37 · answer #6 · answered by incognitas8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what u need 2 do is wait. honesty. if u prefer not to PLEASE ask him to go get tested for std's. including hiv. don't take no 4 an answer. don't fall 4 the the "condom" that can break and lead to far more undesireable consquences. HIV is the #1 killer. it's even sader that sex can kill people.
2006-08-29 12:33:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋