I'm meeting another gay guy for the very first time; he's 40+ and I'm almost 20. He seems pretty interested in starting a relationship, but I dont want to go too fast. Anyway, got any advice? thanks in advance.
2006-08-29 05:13:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
In all seriousness... Almost 20? He's 40+?. Too much of an age difference. You can do better. He will only ever see you as the "young prize". creepy. never date someone 10 years older or younger than yourself.
2006-08-29 05:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't fall head over heels, put your guard up a little, ask if he wants long-term or not and don't do anything that you don't feel like doing. I have made my fair share of mistakes with older men. I had to fall many times and I learned the hard way. Hopefully, you don't have to go through the same thing. A lot of men at that age are set up in life. They either have it or they don't and they could be looking for something a little differently than you are. I am with someone 20 years my senior. I hated my other half at first! (gave me a bad impression to my friends and I.) I am with him now because, I wasn't looking. I just wanted to meet some new people. He wanted to get to know me. I met him at a bad time (my first impression) but, he was different because I gave it time.
2006-08-29 05:27:30 · answer #2 · answered by justincausejustintime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go back and re-read the first response you got, that is right on the money...and your best answer. any man over 40 into a guy as young as you should question his own motives. run, dont walk to nearest exit (unless you just want a good F**K, then go for it)
2006-09-01 07:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, that is a huge age difference. i think that it is not a great idea to meet with him. why would a 40 yr old want a relationship with a 20 yr old? come hun, use your nugget!!!
2006-08-29 06:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my husband are only 8 years apart, but we have major differences. He can't do the things he used, and I'm still in my prime. I would find someone your own age.
2006-08-29 05:40:02 · answer #5 · answered by Q~T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a gay woman, this is not a good idea. You are a boy toy to him. If you're interested in messing around, go enjoy yourself. Remember dafe sex!!!!! If you're interested in a relationship, you two will hacve nothing in common. Please think clearly about this.
2006-09-02 00:53:20 · answer #6 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much of a age difference, find someone your own age. It'll save you heartache later on.
2006-08-29 07:18:33 · answer #7 · answered by ~Twisted Sister~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take it slow ... and make sure you really want to be in a relationship with him. the age difference might be hard. i know it was hard on me in my last relationship. i don't mean to discourage you; it's not really what broke us up. i wish you all the best.
2006-08-29 06:44:53 · answer #8 · answered by kittens 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a date in which you are meeting and not hooking up, keep your pants on and zipped. Make sure he does the same. ;-)
Have fun!
2006-08-29 05:56:50 · answer #9 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋