Me and Brandon been 2getther since 6th grade and now we 12th graders and we are both 18 and he proposed last nite to me and i really love him but i'm not sure how to tell him yes! any ideas?
2006-08-29 05:13:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you really do want to marry him then just say yes. If you're looking for some special way to say yes then write him a letter or get a card and sign it "Future Mrs. Whatever".
For the record, I am ignoring your age. However, have you talked it over with your family? Just make sure being someone's wife doesn't interfere with any personal life goals you may have: a certain career, college, experiencing life, ect.
Being a realist, I would suggest you guys live together for a bit before getting married. Just because you get engaged doesn't mean you need to be married right away (I waited 2 years). When my then-fiance lived together, we found out alot of stuff you don't know when you don't live together. Example: my now husband likes to leave his socks in the office and puts dirty towels on a different hook in the bathroom than his clean towel. Normally, people would put dirty towels in the washing machine. He's a guy and Ipick and choose my battles with him- hey, atleast the dirty towel isn't on the floor. If I remind him, he'll put it in the washing machine.
Good luck to you with whatever the future holds. Remember your happienes comes first, then his. Always here for advice :)
2006-08-29 05:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by Phoenixsong 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait til you are older and a bit more mature, marriage is a BIG deal and it seems now days in this society that it seems disposable. Divorce is rough, ive been through it, i even myself got married too young, i was married at 21 and im divorced. Think of it this way, you have the rest of your lives, and if you know you want to be with him for the rest of your life, why rush marriage?
2006-08-29 05:29:18 · answer #2 · answered by magickitty0621 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
18..sounds a bit too young. People change and 6 years together really means nothing
2006-08-29 05:16:46 · answer #3 · answered by Neutro 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
say yes even if you make a fool of yourself at least you got the important part over with
2006-08-29 05:27:30 · answer #4 · answered by justme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if u really love him, no question and u really want to to spent the rest of your life with him then just tell him 'i want to marry u'
2006-08-29 05:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your having doubts then you don't love him and besides you guys are still baby's, live a little.
2006-08-29 05:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by joey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
too young.
Say no.
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2006-08-29 05:37:34 · answer #7 · answered by Fernando 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋