I'm a bisexual female and have dated men in the past (over two years ago) and have started dating females but I am single right now. I am attracted to females more than males, but sometimes I still get attracted to guys. I'm just worried that if I date a guy I will not longer be interested in him if I meet a girl I like, and that will be hard to explaine to him. Also, he is a guy in my class. What should I do, just flirt with him and not date him or should I date him?
2006-08-29 04:49:14 · 13 answers · asked by Sammy 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
stop thinking about possible cenarios. do how u feel like in the present, without holding back.
take one step at the time. when a new situation emerges, then find a solution, and not before it's real.
2006-08-29 05:22:09 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you may be putting the cart before the horse here. I think we could all ( whether gay, straight, bi, etc.) say "what if this happens, what if that happens". The thing is, you are attracted to this guy, great! Now enjoy it for what it is, if you date and have fun, great. If someone else comes along, female or male, you just do what anyone in that situation does, deal with it. I think being bi, maybe you crave the sweet intimacy and closeness that can happen when you date a women. But at some point maybe you are physically and sexually attracted to men. It can be tough to try to map the whole thing out, but you know what they say, when you're bi you have a 50% greater chance of having a date Saturday night!! Have fun, and good luck
2006-08-29 12:28:04 · answer #2 · answered by libraesque 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gay or not gay. No difference, this is simply a dating question. A lot of regular guys have this same question and it resolves itself. You sound kinda young not to know that sooner or later you'll meet someone who will know yer socks off. You'll want to spend more time with them, then ALL your time with them. This ability comes with time and maturity. \
My advise: date who ever you want to now. That special person will come along sooner or later and the 'problem' won't be a problem any more.
Good luck!
2006-08-29 11:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by Freesumpin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just flirt with him. being attracted to a guy is the same as being attracted to a girl; it doesn't matter whether you'd be leaving him for a girl or another guy, if you broke up with him - don't you think? and if you end up dating just tell him you're bi. i don't see the big deal.
2006-08-29 14:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by kittens 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're attracted to females more than males so I would say don't waste his time especially if he so happen to really get into you.(Don't play with his emotions).
2006-08-29 16:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by Necole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By "dating" do you mean sexual goings on? If you are going to have sex with him then it is more than flirting. But you know that. You are blessed with the feelings for both sexes. Use your powers for the good of the people, two girls and one guy make for a real meaningful relationship.
2006-08-29 11:55:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
If you are already concidering that you might "drop" him for a female, you really aren't that interested in him to begin with. Don't do it.
2006-08-29 12:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should do what makes you happy. i mean if there is a god, and we all get judged for our sins. at least you can justify your actions by saying: it made you happy and it did not affexct anybody else.
As long as you are trueful to your dates, and let then know that you are not being exclusive to them. all should be fine. goodluck...
2006-08-29 13:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always wanted to do a threesome, bring a friend come on over.
2006-08-29 13:08:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you find a guy that is into open relationships ? So he won't mind if you have a girlfriend and a boyfriend !!
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2006-08-29 11:56:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋