My BF of 2 months tells me that the fact that his ex has a bFand is eating him up do to the fact that he was the cause of there break up (and they have been together for 7 year and have 2 kids)and he just found out that she wasnt a virgin when she got to him but that her current BF was so he lived with this lie for 7 years. Now my BF claims that he is in love with me but of course i get mixed signal I mean i have been through the same thing he has and it took me some time to get over it and I know it is recent but how shoudl I deal with this because in a way i feel that i am being used for comfort although he has demonstrated that he cares for me alot and I care for him alot as well but dont know how to deal with this I want to be and have been supportive but cant help to feel the way I do . What should I do? Is he over her or not? should i leave him alone for him to think?or stand by his side because eventually he will get through this just like i did
2006-08-29 04:48:20 · 8 answers · asked by florlatinspice0825 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i stand by his side and do things with him that i never did before to take his mind off of her,, that'll do it for him... r spend more time with him he ll get over it
2006-08-29 04:55:59 · answer #1 · answered by caramel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is still in love with his ex-girlfriend --- if you need concrete evidence of this How in world do you know the status of her virginity? It's obvious he is really into her or he would not tell you intimate things about her. Boyfriends that are really in love do not talk in such detail about someone else instead they are asking you intimate details and wanting to more about you? Leave him alone and get with someone that will be there for you.
2006-08-29 12:06:04 · answer #2 · answered by sonole 05 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since it is only 2 months, I suggest you leave him. He has too much baggage.
2006-08-29 12:06:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think honestly, hes not over his ex, and honestly speaking, i feel as ifyoure his rebound. wow, i use to be in that same situation to. if he constantly talks about his ex, its obvious hes not over her, so i would open my eyes and pay more attention dear@
2006-08-29 11:54:19 · answer #4 · answered by fable f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no kidding...i agree with who said " what " ? girl, you need to slow down and try to sort out what you're saying before you type it ok...i think someone can probly help you, but not if we don't know what you're asking us
2006-08-29 11:54:14 · answer #5 · answered by raylie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better to leave him alone to think. everyone is hurting in a situation like this, so try not to make it harder on yourself.
2006-08-29 11:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by sheepherder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a nonsense question!!!!!
I falled in love with you? Now ask on Yahoo Answers what you to do............. OK?
2006-08-29 12:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what?
2006-08-29 11:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by KC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋