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2006-08-29 04:25:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
not your business to solve.
2006-08-29 04:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by oohhbother 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to hear that,but unfortunately,no matter how much you would like to resolve this between your parents,you just can't.No one knows the full story to any man and woman and their personal lives.Not even their children nor friends.You can voice your opinion to your mother and explain how much this is really hurting the family,but at the same time,listen to her if she chooses to talk to you on her actions.You say that your father is aware of this issue,but from your statement i do not get the feeling that he is stepping up to your mother about this affair,this tells me that he must feel some guilt somewhere on his behave that has reflected such actions in your family.This is where it comes back to say no one knows the full story here.I really hope they find their love back to each other the way it use to be,but it has to be them to do it.Just pray for them,that the Lord removes this man in your mothers life and that he restores and binds your parents together again.That this time it will be so much stronger that no weapon formed against them shall not prosper!Amen! I will keep them in my prayers and you as well.I know this has to be taring your world upside down,but things that are meant to be will be that way,so have faith and best of wishes and Good Luck!
2006-08-29 04:38:07 · answer #2 · answered by twjp1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree with another answerer to this question.
This is your business, because you have feelings around it.
Be fearless, bring up the subject. They might try to sweep it under the rug, but if you do that which scares you, you are showing them another way to live life. You will end up being a wayshower of truth and light.
Eventually the child grows up, and sees their parents as people who have fears.
Drop the roles, and be that which you know you are inside. Love.
2006-08-29 04:31:05 · answer #3 · answered by Joy_Brigade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dad is hurting. If you haven't been in his situation, you really can't imagine how much he is hurting. He needs someone to talk to. Ask him to talk to a pastor, rabbi, counselor, or close friend. It's OK for you to comfort him, but he should not share the detail with you.
BTW, the lesson you can learn here is that cheating inflicts the worst kind of emotional pain. It's almost the same as the death of a loved one.
2006-08-29 04:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your fathers? How many fathers do you have? But hate to say it, but if your father knows about it then it isn't any of your business at this point. BUT If it truly bothers you this much talk to your mom and tell her that it bothers you. Talk to your dad and see why he does nothing about it as well. Other than that stay out of it.
2006-08-29 04:35:02 · answer #5 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be supportive of them both, and that is when they need you. Don't choose sides, if your mom is having an affair, I'm sure she has her reasons. As children we see alot, but do not understand all....
2006-08-29 04:34:31 · answer #6 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents will have to work it out for themselves. You should ask a school counselor or a kids help line for some support. It must be really tough for you to watch your parents in this situation. I hope everything works out for you.
Take care.
2006-08-29 04:35:26 · answer #7 · answered by Louise On The Edge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh no.....that's sad but it's not your business to fix. Other than letting then know that their fighting is affecting you I don't think that there any more you can do. That's not a great example or role model to set for children - they should be ashamed of themselves.
2006-08-29 04:36:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not your problem...love them, tell them you love them, and let them work it out.
Not every marriage is happy. Not every separation is bad.
Keep sex and "love" separate...one is natural, the other supernatural...and keep in mind even parents have a hard time sorting all that out.
2006-09-01 09:17:14 · answer #9 · answered by Just David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be there for them but not get involved. This issue is between your parents. Let them handle it. Just ensure them both that you will be there for them, but stay out of it.
2006-08-29 04:56:09 · answer #10 · answered by Ro Ro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your problem to solve. Let your parents handle their own business and you mind yours.
2006-08-29 05:36:41 · answer #11 · answered by Enough 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋