I have a friend of almost 20 years and she was going to get married next month but her plans got postponed and I received a post card in the mail like everyone else telling me the postponed news instead of a phone call. Is it OK to be hurt over this ??
2006-08-29 04:13:00 · 7 answers · asked by independentmel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She was probably completely overwhelmed by the situation. It cannot be easy to postpone a wedding. There are a million details to take care. Yes, in a perfect world, she should have called her closest friends. In reality, ...
You can fix things by calling her and saying, "Wow. Is there anything I can do to help?"
2006-08-29 04:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
c'mon dude this is no good news that even yr suppose 2 kno but i kno i mean shes means a lot 2 u after all yr frndship is 20 yrs old but still dude she needs some privacy just relax n put yrself in her place then u'd understand her betta anyways don take tension give tension .. lol
2006-08-29 11:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by sweetheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be disappointed. A 20-year friendship, you would think she would have called you and maybe even wanted to talk about it. I understand your hurt feelings. Hopefully she will call soon and explain. Good luck!
2006-08-29 11:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by hotmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y should u be hurt? put urself in her position. i think she's the one who's sad rite now coz she's forced to postpone her wedding..
2006-08-29 11:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by nini moreal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Likely she is feeling upset and can't talk about it...give her the benefit of the doubt.
2006-08-29 11:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by SeraMcKay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not the the situation or the pain that she is going thru
2006-08-29 11:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by Annie R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With time things will heal. Life goes on.....
2006-08-29 11:16:10 · answer #7 · answered by EMAILSKIP 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋