my friend just started dating this guy and she's having insecurities about herself and her worth to him, what his intentions are, cuz we are fairly young. and she cries about this cuz she likes him but she can't help but think that he's going to do her wrong somehow since she's had her heart broken badly before. so how do i help her? what do i say to her?
2006-08-29 04:04:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2006-08-29 04:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like to me that your friend has a lot of trust issues. When you are looking for love, you set yourself up also for the possibility of a broken heart. It's unfortunate that your friend has had her heart broken before because now she is using her biases towards her new realtionship. She needs to give it a chance. If the guy turns up to eb a creep then she'll move on. But she can't base her new relationship on her old. It's not fair to the guy and it's not fair to her. You have to be open to a broken heart in love, because if you always hold back you miss out on a lot. It sounds to me that maybe she isn't emotionally ready to open her heart. Maybe a relationship isn't something she need right now.
2006-08-29 11:13:01 · answer #2 · answered by Ro Ro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her honestly, about the guy she's dating, and if he really is a good guy. And tell her there's nothing to worry about. Then take her out for ice cream and shopping, or something that she likes. And during the relationship make sure that your there for her, it'll make her feel a lot more secure.
2006-08-29 11:13:44 · answer #3 · answered by Meera K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to remember the good times and forgive and forget the bad. share fave memories. she might like it that she has a friend that really cares about her.
2006-08-29 11:13:21 · answer #4 · answered by .Forever Young. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her who is most important to her? you or that heartbroken. also ask question who will be long last with her. after ward ur human nature will turn you to good solution.
friend is friend if we become old ,poor, disable, Rich. so don't loose he or she.
2006-08-29 11:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by danniel s 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give her a laugh or a joke.
2006-08-29 11:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by ErC 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋