Is it odd to love your past loves? to still be bestfriends with your exfiance? This is my situation right now. I cant help it, I want to be with him!! Help me
2006-08-29 03:59:22 · 14 answers · asked by rachey b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's beautiful because it means it was real love. The term love is thrown around a lot but you cannot fall in and out of love. Once you love someone, it never goes away. But figure out why you broke it off the firsttime before you decide to jump back into it. I am engaged and in love to one man but best friend's with my ex. I still love him very much but we didn't end up together because we were too much alike. But he always has a place in my heart.
2006-08-29 04:11:27 · answer #1 · answered by Nina 2 Niña 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop being in love with the past. It's memories and the feelings you had with those memories you love, so make new memories now. If he were more than best friends with you it would have happened already. If you tell him and he says he's not interested, you would definitely be hurting more, so best to just move on now.
2006-08-29 11:03:38 · answer #2 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there Rachy.
Let me tell you, there are other people out there. I am with a new partner, and my ex just got MARRIED. But he is still my best friend, and I know I will love him unconditionally forever - so no, it isn't weird as such, just, we aren't all that common, lol.
2006-08-29 11:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by teh_uber__pugseh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be friends again. Being best friends surely doesn't mean anything, you just weren't ready for marriage. You can try again from friendship, but just ask if he would like to go to a movie or out to eat.
2006-08-29 11:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by Kelley K. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then why not ?? now are you going with some one? is your ex attached to someone else? if either is attached somewhere its a bit complicated. if it is so , it is likely to cause a bit of pain and heartburn around. its your life and think carefully. Also you should think WHY the ex became ex? did anything change ?
2006-08-29 11:08:20 · answer #5 · answered by jaco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its perfectly fine to be friends with you ex, but if its causing you to wish ya'll were still a unit, thats not good for you. Why torture yourself sweetie, just go fishing and give yourself another chance.
2006-08-29 11:04:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's perfecty normal but you should move on otherwise you'll end up lonely and that is so sad because the world is huge. Good Luck!
2006-08-29 11:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by Supriadi M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There two things which would make you stil wish for your Ex .First if your current guy is very bad in bed or he doesn't really understand you ! if that is the case ,run back to your ex !!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-29 11:46:26 · answer #8 · answered by liza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a normal thing to still be in love with your ex... and u should ask him out if you still care about him, but the questiond is does he still have feelings for u ,, before u decide to ask him out u need to find out if he is still in love with you...
2006-08-29 11:04:44 · answer #9 · answered by Rosie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not odd to love the past lovers. just say you love him!!
2006-08-29 11:05:01 · answer #10 · answered by kelly A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋