My Boyfriend is Arriving 4 days from now. i consulted my doctor about Birth Controls and contraceptives. He dont want to use condom so that is not on the list! Pill is taken in the first day of period and the patch is also like that. my next period is on the 3rd week of september!
What will i do? Help... No silly Answers ok? Please...
is there any else i can do or take?
Is injectable safe for a 17year old Girl?
And what is the side effect....
2006-08-29 03:55:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Well - ok, first, stop freaking out.
Second, at 17 - are you really sure that you're ready for sex? It's really something that should be reserved for marriage.
Third - well, condoms are really the best idea. There are lots out there that are good quality and don't cause much loss of sensation. If you don't want to talk to your doctor about this, you can go to a (walk-in) health clinic, or, if you're in Canada, you call call Telehealth. You can also talk to a pharmacist - don't worry, they're not scary, and that's what they're there for.
Plus, condoms protect agains STDs as well as pregnancy - and that's always a good idea.
2006-08-29 04:21:19 · answer #1 · answered by ceekryt 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok the first thing you need to do is calm down.
If he's any sort of a good boyfreind he should understand that you can't have sex with him without a condom. You aren't on birth control pills yet, or you haven't waited the amount of time that you need to after starting the birth control pill to have sex without pregnancy. I am 19. I have a boyfreind whose 23. We've had sex probably at least 200 times in the past year, that we've been dating, and EVERY SINGLE TIME has been with a condom. If he cares about you, he can use a condom until your on the pill, if you even want to get on the pill at all. Don't do something just for him.
I would suggest using lamb skin condoms for right now. I've used them, and they feel as close to bare skin as you can get using a condom, because it is made of natural membrane. However, if your boyfreind has any STD's I wouldn't use this type of condom. Sperm can't pass through them, but STD's can.
Another option for a condom that feels more natural is polyerathane. It doesn't feel as natural as the lamb skin, but it does transmit body heat and doesn't let STD's pass through.
2006-08-29 04:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by Green Tea Happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This really concerns me. You HAVE to protect yourself...PERIOD. This is a "boyfriend" and you do not know what he does when he is not with you. Having sex with him without a condom (your only REAL pretection against STD's and AIDs other than abstinence) is essentially SUPER risky and dangerous. It doesn't matter what kind of birth control you use. If you are unprotected, that could REALLY change your life!! Obviously you cannot use the pill, unless you are already taking it. You must take care of yourself (and him, by the way).
2006-08-29 04:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any BC that you start now will take some time to fully get into your system. And regardless you should be using a condom anyway..... To protect form STDs pregnancy and everything else that is floating around out here. Its not a factor that he doesn't like them or not you should be using them period. You may love him but you need to love your self and your life more.
2006-08-29 04:08:02 · answer #4 · answered by Laila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no! Be careful! You don't want to piss off Big Bad Boyfriend, who is too cool to use condoms! You better be ready, otherwise he might take off his belt and beat you!
Use condoms. Which is more important, your safety or a tiny loss of pleasure for him? When you give birth nine months from now, you don't want to raise the kid as "the one who shouldn't have been born but was anyway because my boyfriend wanted increased pleasure during sex", do you?
2006-08-29 04:01:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt want to use condoms then why would u b stupid for him??? Protect yourself first because as much as you think he luvs u he obviously wont protect you. I hate it when young girls think the way you do, its silly and immature and really if you cannot think like an adult and luv yourself and protect yourself first then u have NO BUSINESS having sex! Sorry to b harsh but why in the hell would you put his wants b4 yours?? You need to have a talk with this "boyfriend" of yours and tell him its a condom or NO SEX at all... b brave Luv yourself put yourself number 1,
goodluck
2006-08-29 04:17:09 · answer #6 · answered by Lori 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Condoms. There are ULTRATHIN, large sizes, that are like the real deal. Barring that...FOUR DAYS AND YOUR JUST THINKING ABOUT IT!!!!!
Nothing you can do except condoms or risk pregnancy. Get the prescription for the pill anyway so you can start it in Sept. and tell your boy tough tatas. Or find him a girl with no self respect who would risk preganacy and disease for him.
PS. LISTEN TO BARBARA!!!!
2006-08-29 06:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even with the Pill you should be using a condom. Tell your boyfriend to suck it up and put one on, because you're at risk for a lot of other things than pregnancy from unprotected sex.
2006-08-29 04:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by sun of samsa 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WAIT!!, This guy does not love you if he's prepared to have sex with you then he should be prepared to take responsibilities. If he's unwilling to use condoms then you should not have sex with this guy and perhaps even dump him. This is no silly answer - I know cause I got pregnant through the same damn thing, guess what were not together now so keep your dignity and self respect for someone who isn't prepared to get STD's do you know what they are - and how do you know he doesn't have one - BE CAREFULL!!
2006-08-29 04:16:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie if he really wants sex all that bad he will use a condom until you are able to start the pills.
2006-08-29 04:14:10 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋