2006-08-29 03:35:41 · 15 answers · asked by smithy2140 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There is no real answer to this question but what I have learned of what love is to me and that is the word LOVE itself holds the answer.......
(L)isten: and validate them by hearing and empathizing.
(O)verlook: their minor character flaws as they will overlook yours.
(V)alue: who they are and what they mean to you.
(E)xpress: how you love them not just with words but with actions.
2006-09-01 16:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just heard a talk on the radio about what is true love. If you have "ooey-gooey" butterflies in your stomach, then it's just an infatuation. We can be attracted to a person's physical being or some small thing about their personality, but that's not love. Real love is when you can obviously see a person's flaws but there is something really beautiful about that person's character (not appearance) that makes you want to be near him/her. Most of the time people confuse a crush with love. A crush is more often than not a distorted wishful idea of what a person out to be in our mind...not what they really are. Take things slowly. Good luck.
2006-08-29 11:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by SeraMcKay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just becoz he seems to love u and u think he's a great guy doesn't mean its love. U seem to be thinking u love him coz he is good to you. If u really love him u would know it in your gut. U yr self would do any thing for him. He would mean the world to u. N just being with him n knowing he loves u would make u smile. Love is a lot of things...... But u have to feel it to know it. So think abt it?????? Do u love him???? Remember love is two sided thing. Bottom line if u love him u wouldn't be thinking if whether u do or not. u would know it in yr heart!!!!
2006-08-29 10:53:35 · answer #3 · answered by reality7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is.... Having complete trust and faith in that person but still being able to keep your sanity and common sense. It's about wanting to spend the rest of your lives together, to go through life's ups and downs and know that you will both be able to continue loving each other through them.
When you love someone, you know, you don't think. Are you sure you don't feel you ought to love him because he is such a great guy? Don't be selfish - for his and your sake - if this is true. It's not fair for the both of you, especially him.
Good luck.
2006-08-29 10:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by 675 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is differant things to differant people but if you need to ask???
In life you'll meet lot's of guy's you could live with - you want the one you can't live without! That's love
2006-08-29 10:39:05 · answer #5 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then you are the only one who knows. I can define the word but if you feel love you must know where it is and what it is
2006-08-29 10:39:18 · answer #6 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God! what more do you want, I would love a guy who does eberything for me...What has love got to do with it, enjoy it girl or go for someone with money, you could love money I do...
2006-09-02 07:35:29 · answer #7 · answered by Molly B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Love does not consist only of looking at each other, but mostly love is looking together in the same direction."
2006-08-29 10:40:24 · answer #8 · answered by Peyman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u KNOW when ur in love if u have to ask urself then ur not in love yet. also its painful to b away from them but if u r asking urself then ur not in love u will know trust me and gud question. can u see urself with this person forever? gud luck
2006-08-29 10:40:10 · answer #9 · answered by Mr Mister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are ready to sacrifice your time, money and energy for someone that really cares bout you. you will be happy and safe when you are near him. are you ready to sacrifice for that somebody. its all about sacrifices and tolerate. if u you are not ready, then love will be a burden for you, trust me ok. may god be with you.
2006-08-29 10:42:40 · answer #10 · answered by Tiger Long 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋