For example, I watch porn about an hour a night and obviously do activities correponding with watching porn - but I also don't have a girlfriend. My porn video collection comes from free download sites, is quite large and ranges from older women to group sex, taking in most porn stars. Am I a pervert?
2006-08-29 03:25:41 · 30 answers · asked by solo 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Be as judgemental as you want - I'm never going to meet any of you people in real life!
2006-08-29 03:27:10 · update #1
No... I don't think so...
although rubbing yourself against people on the tube would make you one
2006-08-29 03:27:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Come on SUN M! Your no pervert. There certainly won't be anyone on yahooanswers that can answer to your question with any degree of professionalism. In our present society only Psychiatrists and/or Psychologists determine perversion and it's listed in their DSM-IV Manual.
I know from personal experience that watching porn pretty regularly can cause one to feel jaded. I just have some kind of internal action mechanism which motivates me to seek out partners rather than acquire any satisfaction from pictures and/or movies.
Because you are so open and transparent about your affliction, I feel like reciprocating in some fashion.
When I was young, probably around your age, I watched the stuff more often than not, but, it never really gave me any satisfaction of an erotic nature. I found a little interest in it's esoteric meanings, but, there was no wholesomeness to motivate me to continue. I would suppose this is a point which you've reached. By what you've written you appear to be kinda fed-up with the suff. Some of your answerers have made good suggestions. It's probably time for you to look in other directions.
Good luck and best wishes!"
2006-08-29 04:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think watching porn makes you a pervert. Inappropriate sexual behavior in public, and inappropriate contact makes someone a pervert. Sounds like you are just a normal person. Were you hoping for the pervert status?
2006-08-29 03:56:10 · answer #3 · answered by Lemme tell ya... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel that you are? In my opinion pervert is anything outside of the generally accepted norm. Which at times means that we are all perverts. I watch porn to, I'm married, but when I was single I watched it. I think that it is perfectly ok.
2006-08-29 03:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by srrsmr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like a pervert then you're probably not one, most real perverts don't even realize they are doing something socially wrong. Why don't you try finding a girlfriend instead of spending your time watching you could be doing.
2006-08-29 03:36:17 · answer #5 · answered by YE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pervert means dirty old man. I suppose u'd be a perv if u were perving on younger girls. That would make you a perv. Like if u wer perving on me! Then you'd b a perv. Go on a chatroom and pretend to be a 13 yr old girl and you'll meet lots of pervs asking if you like it rough and whether you want to have some 'fun'. But since you haven't put that down as one of the things you've done I wouldn't call you a perv.
2006-08-29 03:32:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say when it starts being a negative force in your life.
Compare it to some one who drinks. There is nothing wrong with one drink, there is nothing wrong with two drinks or maybe three. Drinking does not make you an alcoholic, it is the loss of control, that causes the problem.
Get a girlfriend that shares your love for the theater
2006-08-29 03:55:55 · answer #7 · answered by Annie R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think for your age this is remarkable normal,you are a pervert when it takes over your life to the exclusion of all else and it hurts other people and your ability to partake in a relationship.
2006-08-29 03:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by what? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not a pervert your a healthy single male but do try to get out more and meet a g/friend im sure you would prefer to have real sex than watch sex
2006-08-29 03:28:36 · answer #9 · answered by krissydee9282 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're very close.When the fantasies and videos aren't enough and it effects others around you than it becomes other peoples problems besides yours. Ask a sex therapist.
http://www.firesofdarkness.com/pornography_addiction.htm
2006-08-29 03:37:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your needs are catered for and it's all legal stuff you download, obviously porn is a massive business then consider yourself as a normal pervert. then again if you want to share your dirty mind with the www. then YOU'RE SICK.
PERVERT PERVERT PERVERT I'M REPORTING YOU TO THE YAHOO POLICE PERVERT. GO SPANK YOURSELF PERVERT!!!
2006-08-29 03:33:20 · answer #11 · answered by KU 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋