I'm 33 married woman. I have a question about complex situation of my younger brother (27). He was a nice, jolly, handsome sportsman and very caring and loving too all. I had always great understanding with him and on my husband's request he lives with us as he himself has to be on buisness tours frequently. I was not much worried finding out my brother was into flirtious acts with number of gals but considered it a normal thing for guys. I start worrying when he start getting isolated and spending most of time in his room. Too boot, he suddenly announced he wont marry his fiance without giving any reason. finally I decided to talk to him and after a lot of hesitation he scummbed to pressure and admitted that he got addicted of self-pleasure while having immoral sexual thoughts in mind. He also confessed that he started it with suggession of a doctor and get addicted and now do it 3 or four time daily. Hes afraid he has nothing left in him to be married now. Please help me..
2006-08-29 02:58:45 · 8 answers · asked by samera 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
for freinds how are helping me, he did not tell me whats his immoral thoughts but i found incest movies from his drawers..and brother-sister stories
2006-08-29 02:59:07 · update #1
Its great that you're such a supportive sister but now you need to take this one step further. Take him to a professional, sit with him during this time, talk to him and just be supportive as you already are. But he still needs the help because he will end up destroying his life and his fiancee's life like this too. Good counselling can make a world of a difference.
2006-08-29 03:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by DrSH 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is probably best if your brother gets his own apartment. These incestuous tapes have obviously confused and corrupted his mind, now he is harboring thoughts of having sex with you.
Encourage him to get an apartment nearby (for your husband's sake)
2006-08-29 10:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by johnavaro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I would have to ask him to leave. Because every time he looks at you, you will be thinking of this.
This is not healthy. So be safe and ask him to move out immediately.
Good Luck.
2006-08-29 10:04:12 · answer #3 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has a serious problem,or just a little complex?
2006-08-29 10:04:00 · answer #4 · answered by Densya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did his doctor suggest that he pleasure himself or that he should have these fantasies?
If the doc suggested fantasising, then you should make sure to report the doctor to the authorities.
2006-08-29 10:05:32 · answer #5 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him out! And get him a therapist! You cannot solve this problem.
2006-08-29 10:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by Smiles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my.thats dangerous. and wads up with the doc man? hope ur bro gets well soon.
2006-08-29 10:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by gweneth lynn paltfeir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont many of us wannabe can answer this question.
2006-08-29 10:03:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋