we check eachothers emails but the other day a friend forward pics to me,he wanted to send them out, i told him know so i deleted,then i found out he did send it out,if i go out he wants to know were i went but when he goes out and i ask what he did its another issue, it really pisses me off,we are good together but i don't know if we should stay together sometimes cause of these things,its too controlling....opions please
2006-08-29 02:44:04 · 6 answers · asked by killbill 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well it seems you answered your question. Get out while you can. A person that is controlling will always be controlling.
2006-08-29 02:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by squashpatty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love your choice of words! He's controlling, he invades your privacy, he doesn't respect your wishes, and he holds you to a double standard (w/r/t you having to report your whereabouts while he doesn't), but y'all "are good together".
Please allow me to point out the obvious: No. You're not good together. Neither of you are trusting or respecting the other enough as a person to give each other privacy (you've admitted to checking his email also).
Cut and clear; get yourself a new boyfriend *and* a new email address.
2006-08-29 03:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay hun, first things first...yall should have never think that it was "OK" to check each others email...thats when the problem starts...then he will think that ok, so i opened her mail, i can keep tabs on her, and while im at it i can control her...you see there are certain boundaries, i believe men and women should not cross, and thats called PRIVACY...my best advice is, if he's too controlling u got to do sumthin NOW..dont wait until the situation is too far gone...it will be too late...think abt it, if thats the way hes treating u now...why would he treat u any different if your relationship were to get more intimate and serious???..think about it hun..bye..
2006-08-29 03:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's definitely got control issues, and I despise anyone who would invade my privacy like that. That's an issue that will only get worse unless he seeks help. Do you want to deal with that?
ps the gal above me nailed it!
2006-08-29 03:03:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is no trust in a relationship and he is controling why are you staying? you should leave he will always be controling.
2006-08-29 03:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give each other privacy!
2006-08-29 02:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋