I've always wanted a baby but the only reason I never got pregnant was because I don't want kids from diffrent men, only one men should give me as manny kids. I then slept with my boyfriend without protection and he ejaculated in me. It's only been a few days but I don't have appetite already and at times when I see food I feel like vomiting. Am I pregnant? He told me if I'm pregnant he'll take care of both me and the baby, should I hang on to him or is he just kidding? We just met two months ago. Please answer both the questions.
2006-08-29 02:40:54 · 22 answers · asked by sweetdivine 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I can't answer the pregnancy question, although as a father of four I don't think my wife ever could tell if she was pregnant that quickly.
Regarding your relationship and being taken care of I have a few comments. It is important that your boyfriend is not just taking care of you and the baby as some sort of long term project or obligation. You can allow the relationship to progress to see if he is the "one", but don't make something happen for the sake of helping the baby have a normal life.
If you two stay together for the wrong reasons it won't last and could be much more damaging for your child growing up in a home with parents who felt trapped.
2006-08-29 02:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hun it is possible that you can become pregnant but you cant tell after a few days. Wait a week or so and take a pregnancy test. I think right now with the lack of appetite is jsut your nerves and your concerned with whether or not you could be pregnant. Wait it out a bit then take a test...then go from there. And if you do become pregnant, i wish you luck and hope the guy you are with stays in the picture...because not all do, I know this from experience.
2006-08-29 02:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by kjpierce08 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's all your mind, if sounds more like you are love sick. If this guy loves you, he should be talking about marriage and not just being your baby father even though two months is not enough time to know someone enough to want marry them. Better know what this guy is all about before he gets you pregnant, since you do not want kids from different men. The fact that he said he would take care of you and the baby does not mean that he would stay with you.
2006-08-29 03:00:49 · answer #3 · answered by Bantree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow hun. You sound like you may be kind of young. There is no way of knowing if you're pregnant after a few days. In fact, it takes two weeks for gestation to even begin. If you are having questions like this about this boy, then you are probably WAY too young ot be worrying about them. You should have a talk with a parent and REALLY think about birth control if you still feel you are ready to have sex. Good luck!
2006-08-29 02:48:11 · answer #4 · answered by getting large with baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not want to be pregnant, go and see your doctor straight away mate, you could still get the IUD which works untill 5 days after you had sex. Two months of knowing this guy is a very short time to know someone so can you trust him completely, my guess is no. 3 days after you have had sex is a very short time to start having signs of pregnancy. Good Luck
2006-08-29 02:45:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agh, honey. Get one of those early detection kits and try that. It might be a little too early to tell, but keep trying. Your lack of appetite and queasiness might just be anxiety, but find out as soon as you can.
As far as the boyfriend, you've only known him for two months. Does he seem stand-up? I don't know him so I don't know if he's kidding, but don't depend on him right away. I doubt he's kidding about someing so serious, but you need to be prepared to make your own way if he does a fade.
And Stop. Having. Unprotected. Sex. Child!!!!
((((Hug)))) Good luck.
2006-08-29 02:50:53 · answer #6 · answered by Nightlight 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The average woman has a menstual cycle of 28 days. If you had sex somewhere within the twelve fourteen days after your last period it is a possibility that you are pregnant. That is if you have a regular cycle. If not, the best bet would be to get yourself to the clinic for a pregnancy test somewhere around two weeks from now.
2006-08-29 02:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by carpathianne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 19:10:20 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would say you prob are what sucks is you cant test yet that the bite about wanting a baby and you think you are preg but you have to wait almost a month before you can even test but i would say you are and if he told you that hes going to stick with you then i would hang onto him trust me i have two kids a 2 and a3 year old and now im expecting another one so if he says he will then most likely he wil but make sure that you really love him too
2006-08-29 02:51:59 · answer #9 · answered by Katie E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to take a pregnancy test when and if you miss your period. 2 months is a very short time to know someone and then have a baby. I think you should use protection until you are both ready for kids
2006-08-29 02:47:31 · answer #10 · answered by tay_jen1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋